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What are you doing today?
Tillie
Posted: 17 August 2012 - 10:50 PM
 

Today my To-Do list included
water the garden and trees
clean the litter boxes
make a grocery list
clean kitchen
work on quilt

What is on your list? 😀

 

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Karl
Posted: 02 November 2013 - 12:09 AM
 

I botched a credit card payment in July, and I got them to reverse the late fee on it, but it turned out that they weren't totally forgiving -- they've cancelled the promotional 0% rate that I was getting. So, now I have to pay that one off completely, instead of making minimal payments for several more months.

I had a different credit card with a Nov 1 due date, and the payment I'd scheduled was going to arrive a day late; after seeing what happened with the first card, I decided I'd better take steps to do a same-day payment on this one. My bank's bill pay system has this as an option, for a $15 fee, but I found out that if I call the creditor directly and give my bank info, then they can deduct it without any fee, and still call it a same-day payment. Nice.

I checked my lease (one of the things that came up on the FOUND list some weeks ago), and discovered that it didn't have a "last month's rent" included; just a security deposit of about 1.3 times the original rental cost. So it would seem that I have to pay for November rent after all. (I guess I'll email them to make sure.)

Unfortunately, I don't have enough money in the bank for both the credit card payment and the rent. I've just asked my parents to bail me out.

 
MayMay
Posted: 01 November 2013 - 11:42 PM
 

Thanks Tillie and Roxie,
The party was a blast! Matt, Cory, and Snuggles all looked hilarious in their costumes. The only bad thing is now I'm all battered and bruised from falling down more than 5 times at last night's party. I always have trouble walking in heels; and the boots that I wore last night, with my costume, had 6 inch heels on them. 😀

 
Roxie
Posted: 01 November 2013 - 11:09 PM
 

Hi, everybody. Good to see folks signing in! I had a quiet (thank goodness) Halloween and just chilled out either on the computer or with tv.

Today I did my usual two plus put away clean dishes (I washed them yesterday after I signed off). I can see in my living room and kitchen that I'm starting to build up clutter from the old "put it down and there it stays" days, so I have to face that. Also, I only have the remainder of a month of antidep. meds and have to get in touch with a doctor to get that taken care of. About two weeks ago I stopped at a clinic near me to leave my name, etc., but never heard back and was too lazy to call again.

Still need to grocery shop.

Dianne, so glad about your new bed. That seems to be making a major change for you. Congrats!

MayMay, hope your party was very fun.

SusanL, so glad to see you back.

Tillie, I admire your ongoing spirit and willingness to put in work as you can. Your talk of winterizing...made me think of some more things I need to do. Shhhh. LOL

Hugs
R

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 November 2013 - 03:31 PM
 

Hi Dianne 🙂
Thank you (((hugs))) 🙂

Got a lot accomplished and am now taking a break & resting up before I continue.

A good restful night's sleep will really make a big difference in most every thing you do.
So happy you finally got the new beds! 😀

Good luck getting the outside winterizing done before winter weather really sets in hard.

I plant something over my graves. Bushes, iris, daffodils, etc.
My main cemetery is getting too full and I will need to find another spot some day. 🙁
My neighbor has the same situation in her garden too.
So many fur babies that we all love and miss.

Just keep working at that decluttering and organizing and someday soon you will be able to find everything easily because everything will have a place and be right there. ;D

Break time is over, now back to the salt mines. haha

 
Dianne
Posted: 01 November 2013 - 11:54 AM
 

Tillie, you have great inner strength to push thru all the difficulties of shingles. You also have great body sense to know when to ease up and give your body the rest it needs.

I can see where you would feel depressed but take heart in knowing that even with all you have to deal with you still accomplish far more than the average person could do. You are a huge inspiration to me!!

Yes, November is the time to start hunkering down for the winter. We have a few warm days here too so yesterday I power washed the deck again and today and tomorrow will try to get all my outside tasks taken care of too. A friend is coming by tomorrow to help me move heavy stuff and take a load or two to the dump.

I have 8 cat and dog angel grave markers so he can set them around our two burial grounds. He does the grave digging so he knows we're a bit crazy. We have 15 animals on one side under pines and just started a new area last spring with Misha.

My faucets and hoses need the same winterizing, there are old flower pots that can be dumped (I had to give some thought to that), pine cones raked up (I won't save them but still feel the tug), dog houses that need to be cleaned and some set in areas for the fox and other wildlife to tuck into during the winter.

Second morning I woke up without pain. Laura feels better with her new bed too. Although we made a bigger mess getting cleared for them and now can't find things that we knew where they were in the hoard, it was worth the effort.

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 November 2013 - 10:04 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Friday, November 1st. 2013

Weather is supposed to be pleasant today and tomorrow so I will do some winterizing.
Since it has already snowed and melted, I no longer need to water stuff in the yard again till Spring.
I will lay out the hoses, drain them & roll them up & store them away.
I will completely cover the outside faucets with insulation to try to keep them from freezing and breaking.
I will cover some windows with plastic. Hate having to do that because I like being able to see clearly out of them but they are old & leaky & let in a LOT of cold air.
I need to replace some insulation strips around the doors.
The strom door on the back door is not a good door at all.
My hoarder has about 3 other storm doors in the hoard. There is one out there that would fit and do a much better job at reducing the air flow.
I will keep trying to get him to swap out the doors.

My plans for today.....
hang out my laundry
clean the kitchen
try to get him to use up some of the food he has been storing in the freezer for over a year
do cat related tasks
weather proof around here

Getting depressed about not accomplishing much around here lately but with the horrid painful rash of shingles you also get fever and fatigue.
I should be happy with myself for at least keeping up with the daily maintenance. 😉

A whole new month, a fresh start for all our plans. 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 11:46 PM
 

Hi MayMay
Hope you are having a lot of FUN! 😀

Hi SusanL 🙂
Wonderful to hear from you! 😀
Hoping all your paper piles are soon very small. 😉

 
Tillie
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 11:06 PM
 

Hi Cory 🙂

HAPPY HALLOWEEN 😀

Only 3 of us were in Sunday chat and another poster joined us later.

We decided that even with all the issues, the regular chat room was easier to use than the new one.

We are getting pretty good at back spacing to erase our previous post before writing a new post and when the site goes all crazy printing out a post multiple times, we just bear with it.

Yes, we really are crazy, but in a fun way. 😀

 
Cory Chalmers
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 06:36 PM
 

Happy Halloween Everyone!

I hope everyone has a safe and fun night, whatever your plans are.

Can someone let me know what the experience was with the Sunday night chat? I never heard anything back from the web hosting company about how to fix the issues with JAVA. Did you try the new chat room or just suffer through the old one? Thanks all!

Cory Chalmers

 
SusanL
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 11:49 AM
 

HAPPY TRICK OR TREAT!

Self-care, got a long overdue haircut. Looks pretty good. I got out a stack of papers to sort couple of days ago. They're still right there on my desk. Will get to them this week.

Keep up the good work, everybody!

 
MayMay
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 11:11 AM
 

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!! 😀

Tonight we are throwing a Halloween party at the bar. 🙂

I'm going to be a firefighter for Halloween. 🙂

I'm also dressing Cory, Matt, and Snuggles up for Halloween too. Cory is going to be a hot dog, Matt is going to be a taco, and Snuggles is going to be a banana. I was really hungry when I bought their Halloween costumes. LOL. 😉

 
Tillie
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 10:48 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Hi Roxie 🙂
WAY TO GO! for getting the usual two done early! 😀

Hi Dianne 🙂
WOOHOO!!!
sleeping in a new bed and waking up a new & improved you! 😀

Have no real plans for today, just continue what I have been doing.
Tuesday I made a curtain, yesterday I hemmed my new jeans.
Been having so much fun sewing and making plans for more sewing projects.

So far in the Nielsen diary all I have noted is that the TV is off. lol

Like my mornings quiet and stress free and TV is too intense this early.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN
wishing you all a day filled with treats! 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 10:33 AM
 

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! 😀

 
Dianne
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 09:18 AM
 

I hear you Roxie.

I woke up this morning after the first night in my new bed! Yay! I could actually stand straight as soon as I got up. I could walk without pain and felt about 5 years younger.

So nice I'm going back for a little nap now. 🙂

Happy Halloween everybody!

 
Roxie
Posted: 31 October 2013 - 09:04 AM
 

I woke up early and am already feeling a nap pending!

Hi, all. Where is everyone and what are you up to?

Hi faithful Tillie. Good to read your update. I've done my usual two...early in the day yet. I can't believe it is almost November.

 
Tillie
Posted: 30 October 2013 - 11:22 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Sunny with occasional clouds today.

I think the Nielsen people picked my address & phone number out of the phone book and sent me a post card saying I would recieve a call in a few days.
Nice lady called and asked a few questions as to how many people lived here & how many working TVs we have.
Since I really wanted to do this, could have said no thanks, they sent me a packet containing instructions and 3 diaries, one for each TV and a dollar bill for my efforts.
I will keep one diary near each TV. He uses two and I only ever watch the one in the livingroom area.
When we watch a show we jot down the information or check the boxes for when the TVs are off.
The diaries make this very easy to do.
Only have to do this from tomorrow, Thursday through next Wednesday.
Then I seal the diaries and mail them back, they paid the postage.
The important thing about doing this is that our voices will be heard and noted as to what kind of programs WE enjoy and feel are worth our time to watch. 😀

Yesterday I got caught up in sewing and sorting out my future sewing projects while watching the snow and spooky DVD movies.
Didn't cook a thing.
But now have a very lovely vibrant red sheer lace curtain hanging in the window of my little room.

I would not have been able to relax and enjoy myself yesterday had I not forced myself to do that house cleaning.
Getting the house decluttered and cleaned & fixed has all been very hard work and many times I just wanted to give up.
But I would be/was so miserable and depressed.
Now I must defend my "No Clutter Zones" and keep slowly working to get more things around here decluttered, cleaned and repaired.
Not easy when dealing with a hoarder who has no interest in doing the hard work or even allowing others to do the work for him.

As for remembering what day it is....
I try to check the date every morning and try to remember it all day long.
Just hate it when I lose days because I wasn't paying attention. ;D
When trying to remember my age, first I always think 18 then add some years to it. ;p
Life began for me when I became a legal adult and no longer had to live under my parent's roof and my mother's rules.

Have no idea what I will be doing today.
Should get dressed, hair brushed, face washed & teeth brushed too.
A little tidying up, cat stuff taken care of then the whole day will be all mine to do with as I choose. 😀

Today is trash pick up day and the cans are out at the road!!! YEA!!! 😀

Might do some winterizing of the windows and maybe do more to the outside faucets before we have a deep over night freeze.

What ever you all do today try to find the fun. 😀

 
Roxie
Posted: 29 October 2013 - 10:05 PM
 

Mmm, yes, a lovely roast or beef stew, followed by cookies and excellent coffee sounds great. I'll be right over. ;d

I did my usual today plus bagged up two bags of garbage. Have more to do but eh...

Hugs

 
Dianne
Posted: 29 October 2013 - 11:10 AM
 

I get my days mixed up too, Roxie. What always surprises me is when I get my age mixed up. For the longest time I've been thinking I was 62 then someone pointed out the other day that I was 61. haha

Interesting note about the Saudi women. For cancer reasons I avoid too much sun and add vitamin D every day.

Tillie, so glad to read what you wrote ~~ *It was hard. I did not want to do it. But I was very glad that I forced myself to get it done.*

I have been wasting time all day, trying to decide what I want to do to get out of this work. Yes, it will be hard. No, I definitely do not want to do it. But I will force myself because I will feel better when it's done.

How does the Nielsen thing work?

With the fresh snow you must bake the buttery cookies! And a delicious casserole!

I can just imagine little Scooter's expression lol. His first playtime in it will be too cute. 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 October 2013 - 10:36 AM
 

Been snowing here since 7:30am.
It is now 8:30am and the heavy snow fall has everything all covered in crisp clean white snow.
Looks so lovely! 😀

Scooter, the kitten, looking out the window with an expression like "WTF!!! :O

I love it! HAPPY 1st. SNOW DAY!!! 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 October 2013 - 09:57 AM
 

Another rainy day today.
Yesterday I got the usual general cleaning tasks accomplished.
It was hard. I did not want to do it.
But I was very glad that I forced myself to get it done. It's done & over with for now.
This means that today I don't have a dirty house.
Today I can do whatever I want. 😀
Been trying to talk myself out of making those wonderful little buttery cookies that you shape out of a cookie press. They go so nicely with a cup of tea or cocoa.

Ever hear of those Nielsen people who do the TV show ratings?
I always wondered who those people were that they used to rate shows.
Well, it will be me watching TV and telling the Nielsen people what is being watched on the TVs in my house this next week. 😀
This is so much FUN!

Keep posting, love hearing about everything going on in your lives. (((hugs)))

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 October 2013 - 09:40 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Hi Dianne 🙂
Chip chip chip away at those piles and eventually thay will all be gone! 😀

Hi Diane 🙂
Hope you are having fun playing with crafts and straightening up the livingroom. 😀

Hi Roxie 🙂
I read online that people like me, with a sensitivity to sunlight, who always use sun screen, wear wide brimmed hats, long sleeves and always stay in the shade have to be extra careful to make sure they get enough Vit.D in their diets. 😉

 
Roxie
Posted: 28 October 2013 - 11:17 PM
 

Did my usual two chores, then also ran an errand, finally brought the Sunday paper inside, gathered up the week's mail, reseated the mailbox which yet another car knocked over. I was confused, thinking it was Tuesday for awhile. Glad I didn't lose Monday!

Tillie, I'm happy to hear of forward movement. Just keep making changes ilke the tree, and he'll have to deal with it. hehe

Diane, it makes me happy to hear your joy in the picture, the play time, the job, etc.

Dianne, I'm cheering on your continued work and your determination to keep pounding away at frustrating things like the washer. You can conquer it with perseverance!

I've been on the internet and reading foreign newspapers and posting my opinion all over the place. 😀 Also watching a lot of youtube, which is entirely fun. I'll watch almost anything that is different. I learned that in Saudi Arabia, something like 40% of women past menopause have osteoporosis. As I thought about it (other adults are also vit. D deprived), it makes sense: they only go out completely covered except for face and hands! Our skin needs half an hour of sun exposure a day to get enough Vit. D.

Hugs

 
diane
Posted: 28 October 2013 - 01:50 PM
 

morning Dianne and Tillie sounds like you both have busy days. I haven't done anything but play with crafts this morning. Since it is so cold have to go out and get firewood, it is cold in here but 34 outside, guess will have to put a coat on and go out, or soon it will be 34 in here. windy and cold all week, down to 19 one night, brrrrrrr. Today I have plans to stay home all day and getting clutter out of living room, period, mostly practice having fun all day. Cold cloudy weather is going to keep me inside so I can practice being positive and happy inside the house. The chat last night helped me so much, thanks tillie.

 
Dianne
Posted: 28 October 2013 - 11:05 AM
 

Thanks Tillie! 🙂

It does feel wonderful to have more natural light in the house. Really lifts our spirits.

Today I'm going to keep at it in the library. It's overwhelming to see the piles. But I'm going to chip away.

 
Tillie
Posted: 28 October 2013 - 10:32 AM
 

Good Monday morning! 🙂

Today I will do some general house cleaning.
Sweeping, cleaning the bathroom & vacuuming.

Only got rain over night, no snow here.
Supposed to be rainy all day today.

Really enjoying all the light that I get now through the two main windows now that that tree is gone. 😀
It is the west facing side of the house but even early morning there is a lot more natural light in here.
Helps wake up my brain. ;D

 
Tillie
Posted: 28 October 2013 - 10:24 AM
 

WAY TO GO! Dianne 😀

 
Dianne
Posted: 27 October 2013 - 02:26 PM
 

More maintaining today with some dejunking.

I found a box of computer speakers that looked pretty good. All the wiring with the computer and whatever is hooked into it was a mess. The outlets don't work in this room and the electrical guy couldn't get in to check them. I've got it all hooked up to extensions and a power surge strip that work from another room into here.

Anyway I played around with it and finally got the speakers to work. The first thing I wanted to hear was laughing babies on Youtube. They always give me a big smile. I got the wires safely straightened out and wrapped into smaller bendings with rubber bands.

I've gotten rid of some junk papers, made a pile for donations, a pile for regifting for Christmas and cleaned some floor space. I need to keep the cats out of here. They love it because the room gets warm afternoon sun but it's not safe to have them navigating over slipping piles and winding their way around breakables. Although it is interesting to watch how limber and light-footed they are.

 
Tillie
Posted: 27 October 2013 - 12:08 PM
 
 
Tillie
Posted: 27 October 2013 - 11:50 AM
 

Chatroom tonight.
Anybody attending?
Anybody want to use the other chatroom Cory set up?
On the other board I have to scroll down to write then scroll back up to read.
Very frustrating and I can't figure out how to change the format on my screen there.

Last week's chat went well once we all decided to just laugh at the weirdness in our chatroom.

It is still usable. I will try to be in our chatroom by 5:00pm PST.

Please join me there! 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 27 October 2013 - 11:45 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Thank you both (((hugs))) 🙂

Diane 🙂
Great! that you and your friend had quality time together. 😀

Hi Dianne 🙂
It's because of these little moves forward I keep going. Nudging him along at a snail's pace since I can't get him to move any faster. 😉 haha

Last week I finally figured out what's been wrong with me physically.
Put all my symptoms together.
It was the blistery rash that finally clued me in.
I have shingles on the left side of my head.
I refuse to allow this to bring down my spirits. I will not allow myself to wallow in self pity.
I am much stronger than a silly old virus. ;D

Today I will continue to play and relax and enjoy the weather, tomorrow rain & snow is predicted.

 
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