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Tillie
Posted: 17 August 2012 - 10:50 PM
 

Today my To-Do list included
water the garden and trees
clean the litter boxes
make a grocery list
clean kitchen
work on quilt

What is on your list? 😀

 

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Roxie
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 12:28 PM
 

Mold can be easily cleaned by using bleach. Just be sure the room is well-aired and you don't over breath the fumes!

Your toilet may need a new O ring, which is not too hard to fix. You turn off all the water, drain the toilet (repeated flushing). Have a large sturdy garbage bag nearby. Unscrew the toilet from the floor, unscrew the plumbing lines to it, life the toilet onto the garbage bag. Check the O ring, check the floor and subfloor around the toilet. If signs of mold, treat that.

Then you can get the same size O ring cheap at a hardware store, fit it in place, plunk the toilet down on it, then reverse all the previous instructions, being sure to firmly seat the toilet and tighten the bolts (don't go crazy tight, just firmly tight).

For carpet, pull up the edge of the carpet and try to look at the floor beneath. If mold removal is needed, you may need to replace the carpet or a section of it. And treat the floor area.

 
tillie
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 11:30 AM
 

Diane,
First let me give you a big (((HUG)))

You have made a great start already. 🙂
Mildew is mold.
We need to get a good look at the areas to see just what is going on there. May be just mildew or may be some other type of mold.
This CAN all be fixed. Please don't let mold stop you.
So happy the mice didn't get down into the bedding! 😀
Get as much fresh air flowing into the room as possible. Keep the window open day and night to make the air better.
There are many types of molds and most are not the toxic mold. But any molds can cause allergies and breathing problems.
To cut down on mold spores in the air while you work in there spray Lysol disinfectant spray through the area, leave and let the mist settle.
Lysol kills mold spores.

 
Tillie
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 11:13 AM
 

Thank you MayMay and Roxie 😀
It was extremely stressful.
Also he is a big DramaQueen when doing any home repair stuff and that really wears me down too.
When he saw he had broken the valve he started going on and on about how he was going to have to tear up the floor in my little room to get to all the water pipes.
Fortunately, the men at the hardware store told him to just buy a new valve and install that.
LOL ;D

 
diane
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 10:57 AM
 

Thanks for last night, and yes couldn't sleep so at 5:30 was up, made coffee and headed to the dreaded bedroom. Baby steps, took all colored and wood hangers out, they were everywhere, thrift store will get them when return their tubs, nice I borrowed them and need to return them this week, I do these tricks to make me fill them up and return.
Next took all storage bins, racks, overnight bags out to deck, piled all clothes together. Put all tools, and paint in one area in hall to take to garage Had several foam cushions in there, all on deck, now can get to bed. Took all linens off bed. You were right, mice slept on bedspread, and the best I could tell on sheet, bottom sheet and mattress cover had no droppings, all bedding is on deck, will shake and wash unstained ones. The mattress is a new memory foam one I bought several years ago, tried it off, so nice Tipped it up, no gross stuff underneath so think it is fine. I kept thinking I will do one more thing, after 3 hours, I am tired and hungry.
Help needed. The room smells, not sure if it is mold or mildew, or are they the same. Cant tell if it is floor or ceiling. I see leak area in roof and the toilet leaked under linolium and carpet, and then there were the two separate times I left bath running and flooded the closet. Is there a way to treat this? Or would I have to pull up carpet and replace? Would vinegar or bleach kill whatever it is. That is one of the reasons I moved to small room, now that I smelled that, I remembered, fear of mold.
I won't let that stop me, still need to get rid of all that crap to keep mice out. thanks Tillie for all of your support and advice.

 
Roxie
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 07:13 AM
 

Tillie, that was a stressful day for you. I'm glad it is fixed!

 
MayMay
Posted: 17 June 2013 - 12:43 AM
 

Hey Tillie,
I'm glad your husband was able to fix the water valve. 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 09:59 PM
 

Update...
He fixed the water valve and we have water again.
Won't know if he left any leaks till the pumphouse dries out a bit.
He had a major flood in there. 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 06:56 PM
 

Well 🙁
He broke the valve for the main water shut off and now can't turn the water back on. 🙁
I have a very very bad headache now. 🙁

Oh well 🙁

 
Roxie
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 05:12 PM
 

It's Sunday and for me Sundays are chatty days. Don't know why? I'm typically quiet and a loner.

Dianne, your granddaughter will LOVE to get the jewelry. Great idea.

I actually gave a dainty rhinestone necklace to the lady crew member of my cleanout group. She was thrilled to get bling and I got rid of one of a vast number of rhinestones googaws I have (both my collection and my mom's). I did inquire at our thrift store if they thought gaudy rhinestone jewelry would sell and they said "heck,yes." Some of the rhinestone pieces are pins and matching ear rings I never wore and never would. They are probably from the 1940s and 1950s from mom.

Diane, I think giving that guy some work and helping yourself in the process is a GREAT idea.

 
diane
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 04:59 PM
 

I got some work done then went downtown for a street faire. Surprised it wasn't much fun, seen it all before kind of feeling, nothing new and exciting, looked like lots of junk to me now that my full time job is getting rid of stuff. I ran into a guy that I know, he lost his job and told me of some of the jobs he has done for people, like cleaning out a garage for a hoarder, yep, I will call him and have him make some money in my garage, it is worth paying him, since he said he has cleaned filth before, I am getting tired of the dirt and how much I have done myself, time to try hiring. I keep backing out of help from friends, but this guy needs work. Dropped off 3 bags of books, bags of shells, at thrift store today, wow I should have counted shells, would have been a huge number for the June Challenge!!! Some were really pretty, all gone. Borrowed 3 plastic bins from thrift store to fill and return.

 
Dianne
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 04:30 PM
 

Good advice for the costume jewelry, thanks Roxie.

I think a lot of that will go to my young granddaughter. She calls herself *a little hippie girl*.

So anything with peace signs, feathers, my Indian silver and turquoise, leather and beads, etc. she will love.

That 80's stuff was pretty laughable wasn't it? 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 03:39 PM
 

Sorry it's been so long since I last posted.
Every time I sit down that darned kitten starts crawling all over me and it still bites so I haven't had a chance to sit and relax let alone get on the computer. Darned kitten loves attacking my hands when I type and he is always on the keyboard clicking on stuff & away from the page. 🙁

Anyways, 🙂
Have my laundry caught up, kitchen clean and all those other little daily tasks completed.
The darned kitten is outside with my hoarder, playing in the hoard.
So, I was also able to sit, relax and enjoy eating my lunch today. 😀

My hoarder is now fixing an outside faucet that has been leaking for 3 years. 😀
I am just hoping that this does not end up being worse than the constant drip we already have.
He is not very good at doing things like this. :S

Karl,
WAY TO GO! gREAT JOB PASSING THAT INSPECTION! 😀

Hi Diane 🙂
Wonderful progress!
It is hard work processing all those long forgotten bags of mystery items. Maybe not too hard physically but mentally it can be extremely hard.
Be ready to walk away from it all, clear your head and rest when it gets to be stressful.
(((hugs)))

Lynn,
Maybe there is someone else commuting who you can ride share with.
They would have to be dependable though and have a dependable car too.
But anyways, keep this in mind. 🙂

Dianne 🙂
BIG (((HUGS)))
For everything! 😀

Remember ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP today at 5:00pm PST. 😉

 
Roxie
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 02:54 PM
 

Dianne, good job pushing forward. Remember that makeup definitely has a shelf life. Anything not used in one year gets tossed. Some say 6 months.

Costume jewelry, at least for me, is fairly easy to sort through. If you won't wear it again, put it into a donation bag and get it out of there. I had some great costume jewelry, but very dates (say the ugly 80s). For me, I used small Ziploc bags to bag individual items or sets, then put all into a larger bag and out to the car for delivery to the donation location.

Lots of others giving LynnS great advice here!

 
Dianne
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 10:19 AM
 

Lynn, renting a room is a great idea. Besides saving commute time, depending on the rental price, it could save you money in the long run with gas and maintenance expenses on your car.

You'd be fresher for work and not stressed about traffic tie-ups. If you got a call to go in for an unexpected shift you'd be rested and happy to say sure I can do that.

It's a step toward living on your own and will add greatly to your confidence!

 
diane
Posted: 16 June 2013 - 12:32 AM
 

Lynne, you could put a note up in the lunch room to rent a room in someones house that works there, that lives close, pay her with first paycheck. When I had to commute in California, I just left extra early. You will figure it out keeping your job is your priority.

 
Lynn S
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 07:48 PM
 

Thanks diane and good job with all that work at the garage 🙂

The only worry that I have now is construction on the expressway that I take is the main way how I get to there. If construction hinders my way to get there if I'm called in to come for a certain time I don't know how late I'll be and that could be points against me unless I can call it in and tell them due to construction or road closeures for something.
That truely is my only worry. Oh how I hate consruction season on the expressway to work!

Hope everyone is having a great evening. 🙂

 
diane
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 05:08 PM
 

Wow, thanks everyone for the support. Karl, so happy to read you passed inspection. Dianne and Tillie,thanks,still have to remind myself of the amnesty to toss anything I want to toss, and that you can not organize a hoard. Congrats Lynn, hopefully you can find a place to live close to job very soon. Your first time living on your own, you deserve it. Be careful not to look at what is wrong with the job/commute, that is your mothers way, focus on what you are grateful for on the long drive.
I think my competitiveness is why I keep going out to the garage, there are thousands of things to throw away out there, and really trying to accomplish alot on June challenge. Then wonder what I will do in July!!!! The thing about the garage is that I keep pulling more and more bags of stuff out that I bought at garage sales or thrift stores that haven't been opened since purchase, years ago. I thought of the time Dianne tossed a bag of new clothes, I am still terrified to toss bags without looking in them first, then may pull out a thing or two, not only is this wasting time, it is keeping things that I wil have to toss later, so I took a break, and will rethink the process. Thanks Roxie for all your words of wisdom. Ok, I think I have done enough for today, need to take a shower, hope everyone is enjoying today.

 
Lynn S
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 03:21 PM
 

Thanks everyone!

I'm betting the only way and some days I may be able to post anything at all is maybe on
Saturdays or Sundays depending on my schedule.

If I get a 12hr shift it will be added to my 2hour commute both to and from totalling 16hrs so I'll need every minute of sleep I can get and on a very tight schedule. It won't be for five days a week though but it will sure be tiring. Alot of unexpected calling in work or unscheduled calls from the manager can happen and I could be asked to work some shifts sometimes one after another.

Congrats on all who did all that hard work.

Karl congrats on that inspection.

I can't remember who did what else but don't let any guilt creep up on you.

Congrats to all Dianne, diane Karl, Tillie, Roxie, (I can't remeber who else) who are working hard to make room for the better things in life... 🙂

 
Dianne
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 02:44 PM
 

This evening I plan to get into the dressingroom which was in pretty good shape not too long ago.

The main thing will be to go thru all the makeup. Weird thing is I might only use a very little 2 or 3 times a year now.

It's also packed with costume jewelry, hair accessories, sewing stuff, always books, a ton of religious items (holy cards, rosaries, etc.) and lots of sentimental items displayed. And a ton of vitamins and herbals.

Those rascally *little kitties*, the younger, more agile bunch has been knocking stuff all over the place.

So Tillie, I'm finally going to face your challenge of just 1 lipstick. 🙂

Into the wreck....

 
Dianne
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 02:31 PM
 

Excellent work Karl!!

 
Dianne
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 02:28 PM
 

Tillie, your advice is so excellent!!


Don't worry about the items you are tossing.
Think only about yourself and your health and happiness.
You are on a mission to get your home and home life all sorted out.
The world will not miss those items, there is still plenty available at the thrift shops.
Once you have your home under control you can then donate and recycle.
Think of the time and energy you are not wasting cleaning and carting off items.
AMNESTY to throw away perfectly good stuff gives you the ability to get your home decluttered faster and makes it easier on you physically.

I printed it out because I surely need that attitude adjustment!! You are the best!! 🙂

 
Dianne
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 02:18 PM
 

Lynn, a new job, a fresh start!!

Congratulations!! 🙂

 
Dianne
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 02:14 PM
 

Diane you have been doing such a crazy good amazing job!! Don't let any guilt stop you!!

Salvation Army told me they had enough hangers when I took some really perfectly good ones to them along with other stuff. I was tormenting myself over other options (yard sale, shelter that helps abused women get a home started, return to Kmart) because I just could not trash them.

The easiest thing for me, because I needed to think of my mental state more than the fate of the hangers, was to take them back to SA one night a week later. Let a different guy see them the next morning and make the decision.

Your momentum has been so awesome!! Your life and happiness is worth so much more than any guilt. I admire you so much and look forward to the day when I can have your outlook and action!!

No guilt!!!!

 
Roxie
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 01:26 PM
 

LynnS, congrats on the job. I know you will feel much better having some money coming in. Let us know how it goes. Sometimes those first days can be rough, so plan for extra sleep if you can.

Karl, congrats on passing your inspection. I am so glad you plan on continuing the clear out, clean out program.

Diane, I know it can be hard to let things "with potential" go, especially for creative type folks who can dream up all kinds of possible uses for a thing. But amnesty is what is needed for you right now, and it is okay.

I don't know if it is true where you live, but where I used to live, I could put things in my alley way with a "free" sign attached and things would be cleared out by the next day. That was always easier for me. I don't know about here, which is more isolated. There is an apartment building nearby and sometimes when folks move out they leave some stuff behind by the garbage bin. I've found a few things there I was able to clean up AND PROMPTLY DONATE elsewhere (note: not to keep).

 
Karl
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 12:31 PM
 

The landlords just left. They're happy with the state of the living room.

The new target is the kitchen and dining area. In this case there's not terribly much clutter -- a few glass jars and miscellaneous plastic containers -- but they want the stove hood removed and scrubbed down, and the drip pans replaced, etc.

 
Tillie
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 11:28 AM
 

Hi Kara,
I believe you CAN do this. 😀

Diane,
Don't worry about the items you are tossing.
Think only about yourself and your health and happiness.
You are on a mission to get your home and home life all sorted out.
The world will not miss those items, there is still plenty available at the thrift shops.
Once you have your home under control you can then donate and recycle.
Think of the time and energy you are not wasting cleaning and carting off items.
AMNESTY to throw away perfectly good stuff gives you the ability to get your home decluttered faster and makes it easier on you physically.
(((hugs)))

 
Tillie
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 11:18 AM
 

Karl,

Good luck and best wishes.
Thinking about you today. 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 11:16 AM
 

Lynn,

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 😀

 
Lynn S
Posted: 15 June 2013 - 11:11 AM
 

I got that job in a factory. No one from the cleaning company ever called me back after the interview.
I had orientation yesterday at 1p for the factory job. I didn't get back until 5:30p.
It's the season for CONTSTRUCTION. The highway is under construction in which is the way I go for the factory job. I only have 2 other alternate routes to get there. It still is a 45minute commute just on the freeway now with good weather and no accidents.

The other alternate routes take an hour and more to get there. With a possible 12hr shift it will be even a longer work day for me.
But I'm glad that I have a job.
There are possible options to work an 8hr shift if they are available. I hope that I can also get an 8hr shift.
The first shift is from 4am to 4pm. an 8 hour shift would be from 2p to 10p. I don't know the other 8hr shifts yet.
Whoo Hooo!! I'm glad to have a job.

 
MayMay
Posted: 14 June 2013 - 05:54 PM
 

Thanks Dianne! 🙂
A play date sounds like a great idea. 🙂

 
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