| Tillie | Posted: 14 June 2018 - 04:29 PM |
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| Tillie | Posted: 05 January 2019 - 01:50 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Tess Hi Subclinical Terrible dreams & thoughts all night long. My mind was insisting on mentally dismantling that hoard all night long. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 05 January 2019 - 08:15 AM |
Tess, you did great! If I had to go to the apple store I would call that a day! And returns are e gay sting. I did my one return and stripped my bed, washed the sheets and blankets, and remade it yesterday. That was pretty much it, except for dishes and putting away some laundry. I was as tired as I had feared. Also I discovered that my trash is on a holiday delay schedule, so the cans won't be picked up until today. Which kept me from getting out into the studio and starting in on more trash. While I was out yesterday, I stopped in a couple of stores on purpose. My aunt had given me money to buy a Christmas greenery/decoration and I tried to send my dh out while I was sick. He came back with one pink amaryllis, demonstrating complete lack of understanding of what I said. So, yesterday I bought four more amaryllises - red, which have gone by of course, but will be beautiful next year, and enough LED lights to go around our garage, and because I had some money left - when I was at the grocery store restocking staples - a box of candy and a pair of grinch pajamas. Everything was 50-90% off. I did not get to any of my grading or paperwork - I just curled up on the couch and read and watched videos between laundry/dish tasks. I slept late and am less tired today, but dh and I are going to a concert tonight, and I need to do some physical labor tomorrow, so i'm going to be a little lazy again. This cold is never going away. | |
| Tess | Posted: 04 January 2019 - 11:49 PM |
Hi ladies! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 04 January 2019 - 11:22 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical When there is a lot of stuff in a home that needs to be removed it is almost impossible to responsibly recycle/donate everything and would take way too long to finish sorting things out to even try, years as opposed to months. In reality the amount you send off to the landfill is like a tiny drop in the ocean when compared to what goes into the landfill every single day. When all the excess has been removed from your property it will be so nice there. If it falls to me to dismantle the hoard here | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 04 January 2019 - 04:41 AM |
Good job Tillie and scooter! I can see where it would be hard to keep dresses neat without a hanging space. Tillie, you are very resourceful. Tatoulia, good job on your sheets and your walk. And Tess, I am glad you had clean sheets too. I am very tired this morning. It was hard to get up. My body is sore, but the decision making was just so draining. I will try to do easier things today. Maybe some grading. Maybe I will get my basket out or some of my paper piles and tackle them. My big goals for the day are to finally wash all of my sheets and blankets (kitty spent a lot of time sleeping on our bed when the doggies were here) and to take that return to the store. Thank you for the feedback on my decisions and thought processes. It is still very hard to trust my judgement. I was afraid that I had just forced myself to make too many hard decisions - I HATE trash. Taking things from the earth and doing things with them that render them useless or even dangerous, and then carefully preserving them in that state (in a landfill) seems so insane to me. I thought maybe I had just given in to exhaustion and tried to soothe myself with the chair and drawers. The chair I am still doubting, but again, it is wood, it is not "trash" and we were very tight for chairs we could pull up to the table at our party. Wood and steel. The key to getting out of the waste stream is to stop the waste from flowing into my life. Once a piece is here, I need to let it go on to it's destination. Keeping it "in case" just makes it more likely that I will get overwhelmed and something else will get diverted to waste. I'm very sure there were recycling and food scraps in the trash bags from the party, but I was too sick and tired to avoid that. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 10:30 PM |
LOL Tatoulia 😀 Just as long as you remember the basket/hamper plan. 😀 Hi Tess The Marie Kondo show was... Hi Subclinical Steven has a problem with bringing home broken/damaged items saying he is going to fix them. Well, even with Scooter's help... | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 08:29 PM |
Hello ladies !! SubC what a lot you accomplished today! I am so proud of you! Taking strong advantage of the trash service! Getting those metal boxes for your tools! Great work! I'm impressed with your decision-making process! WTG! So happy!!! Tess you and SubC have done so much! WTG on the clean sheets! You did so much and you'll be rewarded with your clean bed tonight! have clean ones today instead of this weekend. My laundry in the building won't be available for about a week. I used to have my own W&D yet the three year old washer broke and the guy tried several times to fix it. Since I've gotten used to using our washer downstairs, I've decided to get rid of the W&D when I re do my kitchen. I am back from dinner, got 3.3 miles in there and back. I took the wreathes out when I left for dinner and will now and the garbage and recycling out in the AM. I will clean kitty's box at the same time. Tillie my dear I've now forgotten what you've written. Ttyl. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 07:49 PM |
Hi Tess! I have a basket, but I am bad at keeping it processed. Mostly it just gets full and then I pull a bunch of stuff out and move it. Sorting and filing defeat me. I don't have Netflix,so you will all gave to tell me if something important comes along on the new show. I made a decision tree to help me fill the trash cans. I look at an object and ask what it's final destination is (trash, recycling, compost, burn) if it is going to be trash eventually, I ask if I really still need it. If not, I assess whether I can donate it. If it isn't good enough to donate, then I should go ahead and get rid of it now, while I have trash service. Not everything has to be completely used up. Not everything can be fixed. Examples of things I got rid of were five pairs of shoes that were really only good enough to wear around the yard in the mud to spare my other shoes - I have boots! And a nasty old plastic shower curtain that I am just not going to wash (my new rule is to only buy machine washable shower curtains. Target has very nice ones that are quite waterproof and last ages) and a cracked waterbucket that I was using as a feed bucket because the feed doesn't leak out, and a lot of plastic foodpackaging containers that I kept because they might be useful, but really, I had too many, and I need to shift my focus to finding alternatives to buying those foods instead of warehousing packaging. | |
| Tess | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 07:05 PM |
Tillie- I agree with wanting to tell certain items they were a disappointment. Lol! How did you like the show? I just added it to my list. Also, I love your basket idea for papers. I might use that for myself. It will serve as a reminder to go through them more regularly. Tatoulia - that was my reasoning with the books as well. I can always replace them on my kindle. These days I prefer my kindle anyway. Plus someone else is going to get to enjoy them. They live on 🙂 Subclinical - 5 cans is amazing! Good for you!!! Today I didn't do much of anything in way of cleaning. It was a workday and I'm tired. I did take out that garbage from my decluttering session, change my sheets and clean the litter box. I also took care of paying bills, adjusting my retirement contributions and I cleaned out my purse. Now it's time to relax and watch a movie. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 05:55 PM |
Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO!!! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 04:14 PM |
Oh my, I have been good today, and I am tired. Started this morning doing yoga with dh. Fed him breakfast, packed his lunch, got him off to work and did my chores. I have washed and dried (but mostly not put away) all the sheets, towels, and blankets from company. One bedroom is guest ready again. There are five trash cans and one black plastic bag up at the road. I walked a total of 1.2 miles to do that. I got feed, went to the bank, paid the farm sitter, went to a different bank to pay my car loan, dropped a full carload off at goodwill, and bought fruit and laundry soap (remember way back when laundry soap was on super sale and I bought enough for "the rest of the year"? - it is almost gone. "Bad" things I did - I brought home a pretty chair with a broken press cane seat from someone else's trash but I really want to fix it. And if I can't fix it, it's wood, so it burns. Also, I bought four little metal cabinets at goodwill. They each have six drawers - 9"x16"x2" deep and they used to hold filmstrips. Three of the cabinets still have removable metal racks that kept the filmstrips in place. Each drawer has a metal handle with space for a label on the front. I intend them for small tools (paint brushes, texture rollers, stamps, carving and shaping tools) and have already set them up on my counter, but I have not put any tools away in them. I am saving that for a reward after I fill a trash can in the studio barn for the next load. The only errand I didn't do is a return to a store that isn't near any of the other things I did. I will do that tomorrow if I am not wiped out from today. I still have a mild sore throat from drainage and a bit of a cough, but I think I am finally close to well. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 02:21 PM |
Hi Tatoulia Great plan to combine the paperwork with something you already now do automatically! Been rearranging some clothes drawers. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 12:49 PM |
Tillie, yes it was papers and cards and stamps, etc. I love your solution! And the basket will remind me to go through them once a week. Maybe I can combine with changing my sheets, so it's shredding and sheets day. Something to prod me into doing it! Glad your cold is better. I too was a worrywort last night. I'm glad I'm home today. The work on our laundry room is going to be next week rather than this week. So I'm laundering my sheets now, in the event it's hard to get at the laundry over the weekend. Meeting friends for dinner tonight. BF is out of town on business. I'm feeling better than I did this AM. Having a fresh cup of coffee. I've taken down one wreath and will get the other one down now. The city recycles them, as it turns out. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 10:45 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical Hi Tatoulia Going to be tired today, didn't get enough sleep last night. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 03 January 2019 - 08:24 AM |
Great work, SubC! Please don't over do! Ok I was up worrying last night and as I crawled out of bed, I realized that I don't want to go to work. So I'm working from home. And it's great. It's damp and raw but the truth is, I'm exhausted. My desk looks great. Now to finish the coffee table/staging area. I am so so tired. I hope I can stay awake. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 07:53 PM |
Way to go on the desk Tatoulia! Tillie, I hope you figure out the trash. I would be worried that Steven would bring the truck back more full than when he left. The paper village is very sweet. It belonged to dh great uncle, who never had kids. Then it belonged to dh grandfather. The grandfather also had a wooden farm that is a larger scale, and every year mil set up the farm on a bench and then set the village up on the windowsill as if it were farther away up on a ridge. But I guess she got tired of the village. It has three little houses and a shop and a sawmill and the whole thing folds flat into a box that you might buy Christmas cards in. I was slower and lazier today than I wished, but I am resting. I got all of the sheets and blankets washed from one of the rooms the kids stayed in with dogs and vacuumed the floor, but I do not have the bed set back up in case of guests. I also emptied and ran the dishwasher. Aaaand - I filled a trash can! It is mostly trash from our party and guests because I was too sick to limit or manage packaging and disposables, but there are a few things I cleaned up from the garage and yard. Tomorrow I have to run errands - I think too many, so I will see how far I get - and also finish the first week of trash cans and take them up to the road. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 07:08 PM |
Thank you, Tillie! Btw, your tidy friend is trending on twitter!!! I have cleared off my desk and it looks beautiful again. Just a silver tray with my desk lamp on it and a small Lalique bird. There's a decorative lidded box and a small framed picture of a long gone yet dearly loved cat. And a placemat which I use under my laptop. The other stuff has been removed (all papers) and I'm going through them now. After I cleared my desk I took a few things to the dry cleaner together with his Christmas box of chocolates (I didn't make it there by Christmas) and then I visited BF for a bit. Getting home and seeing my desk clear, and a little kitty sleeping on the chair next to it, well it warmed my heart. I think I'll put on fireplace, to complete the picture. On the window sill above my desk I kept a tiny paper Christmas house and a really beautiful tree next to it. They are on a silver oblong tray and my precious carved mouse paper opener is on it. I generally have a vase there with the mouse but I decided I liked my little winter scene and will keep up for a while longer. Oooh SubC I just know I'd love your paper village. I'll now go through my papers from my desk and continue to sort through and shred. Tillie I know you are sick and I really appreciate your helping me make these plans. And execute them. Thank you. Sending you warm thoughts and much love. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 06:44 PM |
Hi Tatoulia GREAT! starting on something you see all the time, your desk top. Can you think of better ways & places to keep the desk top stuff from becoming clutter? If you put the paper shredder in a convenient but out of the way place So, the top of upper cupboards are ancient unexplored abandoned places... In the meantime if there is another hotspot you want to start on just let me know. Now get busy working on your desk! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 02:54 PM |
Ok I'm going to clear off my desk. I'm going to take everything off and put on coffee table. Coffee table will be my sorting/staging area. It will look so pretty again. It has collected clutter. Bad desk. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 11:26 AM |
Keep fighting the virus, Tillie! It would be nice if Steven could get on a routine where he drops off stuff once a week, starting with the stuff already on his truck. Cleaner texted me. She is all alone today and asked if she can come on Monday when she has her friends with her. That is fine with me. My house is dirty but maybe I could do a little sweeping? Tillie I have too much stuff. I need to get rid of more stuff. I just do. There is still too much for me to handle easily. I might catch a little of tidying up and see how that helps me. I do have more papers in my closet that need to be shredded. There's always more. Always. Tess I think you mentioned books. Books are so difficult to say goodbye to. That's where I started my dehoarding process. Twenty boxes of books. I got rid of those I won't read again, I got rid of books I loved but I can replace on my kindle, should the spirit move me, I got rid of books that I bought in my 20s to show everyone how artsy and progressive I am. It was tough. I'm so grateful they are gone. I still have books. I had my mother's wedding china and I had to find room, so I used that as an excuse, that I'd rather have my mother's china. Tillie I really need to be told what to do. I'm sorry. Could you pretend that I'm Steven? I'm so sorry to put you in this position. Ideas include shredding more papers, checking out what's on the tippy top shelves of my kitchen cabinets, clearing off my desk which is cluttered all of a sudden, etc. sorry I need this. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 11:09 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical Hi Tatoulia Think this cold is going to go away soon, nose is still stuffy but other symptoms have decreased significantly. Steven used to take the trash to the dumpsters at his job about monthly. The damp feeling laundry felt totally dry after only a few hours inside on the drying rack. No real plans for today except to continue to drown out this cold virus. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 07:18 AM |
Tillie I can't wait to watch the show! Yes there are some things that need to be scolded, others I shall salute to thank them for their service! SubC I forgot to mention how much I love, sight unseen, the paper village! Ok I need to get up for work. I slept with cell in the room in case the cleaning ladies called. They did not. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 02 January 2019 - 04:37 AM |
Tillie, so funny about the stuff! Tatoulia, you have done well with the Christmas stuff! I'm not taking mine down until the weekend. Some of the inflow was not exactly gifts. - the spoon, photos, sad irons, and paper village were all things mil was getting rid of. (She had a big table full of things but that was all I took.) The useful cloth napkins are from aunt S, who was getting rid of ones that were partial sets. She knows I use cloth napkins every day and pack them in dh lunch, so I can use these for the lunch box instead of my "fancy" ones. Five of the books were from a box my mother was clearing out. The other one was a gift from dd. I actually have to return it. It was an excellent choice, as it is a book I both enjoy and use for work, but it is also a book I broke down and bought myself about a month before Christmas. She doesn't know, and it was a very generous gift for her budget. So, I am not going to tell her, I will just figure out a way to return "mine" somewhere and mentally keep her copy. I also have to return a gift I bought twice because the shipping was delayed on the first one. Today everyone else goes to work and I begin cleaning up from our vacation - laundry, and putting things away and cleaning out the fridge, getting the mail, restocking feed, paying the farm sitter.... I also need to start working on filling those trash cans for dh. The first set goes up tomorrow night. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 08:06 PM |
Hi Everybody! WAY TO GO!!! Tess! 😀 WELCOME BACK Subclinical Hi Tatoulia Brought the laundry in. Was checking what's new on Netflix and discovered Was thinking about always having to thank items before releasing them. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 07:13 PM |
SubC the socks and the cloth napkins will be very useful! I only use cloth napkins at home and I adore them all, esp as they get softer with time! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 07:09 PM |
Tillie! Yay for orangeade and soup with cheese-its! Keep taking good care of yourself! I bet the Neto pot is helping too. SubC boy you've been battling this for a long while. Sending you hugs and giant well wishes. I am so sorry this has been really sticking around for you. SubC, My goodness that's a huge Christmas haul! The demitasse spoon sounds so lovely, as do the other gifts. I did well. A woman at work got me pjs, as previously mentioned, and the pjs she bought me a few years back have been washed and out in donation bag, I got the new sheets from BF, and today I have put an older, but still usuable and nice, set in my donation bag, BF cheated on the no gifts rule and bought me an updated TV and he also got me a gift card for beauty services. One friend at work gave me a new, very nice spatula and I used it four times during the holidays. And that's it for non- edible gifts. Pretty snazzy. Oh our overseas friends sent nice gifts. The wife is the woman re-doing my house so there was nothing excessive or unusable. It all goes with my decor, including the dress she bought me. Tess! You are a powerhouse!!! Fantastic work! I'm so proud of you and you are serving as an inspiration! Thank you! I got my Christmas stuff put away, minus two little things I consciously wanted to keep out. I also cleared the hallway of my Christmas decorations. I finally left the house at four, ran into some friends, went to pharmacy, walked around a bit, met up with BF and we shopped for a new baby in the family then I went to mom's yo visit. I pulled off all the usable candy from out gingerbread house and tossed it then I changed kitty's box. I also took my donation bag to the car since the items would not get the right quality for my cleaners. Old t shirts and pjs and sheets. Nothing I could give to them and feel ok about it. I'm running the dishwasher. I still have more to do here but I'm tired and want to go to bed. I'll declutter tomorrow, unless I stay awake, in which case I'll declutter. Happy New year!!!!🎆🎈🎊 | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 07:01 PM |
A pair of socks | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 06:11 PM |
Hi! I am home. Maybe: Very tired. Will return to regularly scheduled life tomorrow. | |
| Tess | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 05:24 PM |
Hi everybody! Happy New Year!!! Thank you all for your kind words. Taking care of others and taking pride in being able to supply what they need has pretty much been my identity. Well, I'm ready to find a new identity and I'm looking forward to figuring out who I will be now. Today I came across a declutterthon. It was on a conference line. Everybody announced what they planned to do and updated the attendees when it was complete. It was extremely motivating to listen to what everyone was accomplishing while I cleaned. I did quite a bit: In all, I have a box and a bag ready to donate and 7 bags of garbage ready to take out. I'm going to call today a success!!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 January 2019 - 04:57 PM |
HELLO EVERYBODY Hi Subclinical Hi Tatoulia I made some orangeade | |