| Tillie | Posted: 14 June 2018 - 04:29 PM |
Welcome to the NEW and hopefully improved message board page. 🙂 | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 31 August 2018 - 10:20 AM |
Good Morning Everyone 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 This is a good weekend around here to stay home. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 10:50 PM |
Thank you, Tillie. The cat has certainly had a great life and we will keep a special eye on him. He has been adored by thousands. Coyotes!! I would love to hear a little of the howling. But not a lot! Overtired. Heading to bed. You are a dear friend to small and large creatures, alike. We get out of work early tmr then I am meeting a friend for coffee. I'll get a good walk in first. The coffee shop is just over a mile from my office then I'll have another mile, mile and a half back home. Our promised cooler weather is already arriving! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 10:16 PM |
Boy! The coyotes are really bad this year! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 09:44 PM |
Hi Tatoulia 🙂 I know how hard these times are. With Marty I just spent my days & nights seeing that he was happy. It always hurts to have to say good bye. I always wish they would quietly just slip away in their sleep in their own beds. YEA! for having an electrician in! I am looking forward to squirrelling away Winter supplies. They finally fixed and updated our power lines so the power doesn't go out all the time because that caused broken frozen water lines, lots of damage and deaths. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 09:14 PM |
Wow!!! You did so much today, Tillie!!! Great work on fixing your meals! Those efforts will pay off! Yes I want to see you get your winter supplies. I do not want you trapped with no food. We picked up Tigger's prescription tonight but I need to speak with the vet first. We still have questions regarding what is right for him. We know we don't have much longer. I assume he'll be gone by Christmas. Our major concern, as it should be, is his quality of life. We need some questions answered re the best course. I know we were given four options (really only three since surgery is not on the table). At time BF spoke with dr they were deciding on options and now we want a little more info to his life/end of life/etc. she will call me tomorrow. Naturally I am very upset as he has been my buddy for many years, at least a year before I started dating BF. I used to visit the kitty on my way home from my parking garage. I know it will be sad but I'm good with it. My last cat was put to sleep st the very same vet's office. That cat I got when I was 17 and my mother will tell you that he was her cat but we all know that's not true. He was merely a tenant in her home. Naturally I'm sad but honest-to-God it's such a peaceful process that I wouldn't mind being put to sleep someday. I've taken another step toward my house. We are having an electrician come to see if I have the proper amperage to do my next hair-brained project. He will try to stop by on Monday. Take care, dear friends. Tillie my cake plate had all the melted buttercream on it. What a hoot!!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 07:41 PM |
Hi 🙂 Been busy today... | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 10:53 AM |
Good Morning Everybody 🙂 Hi Subclinical 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Today I need to water some flowers & the grass. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 09:29 AM |
Tillie I am keeping cool today. Working from home. I see no reason to go in when it's so hot and I have such an intolerance for heat. Hope you stay cool today, too! We are expecting much improved weather tomorrow. Hope it comes true! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 09:05 AM |
Thank you for your nice post, SubC. I especially liked your image of the library. Very useful! I will get that book. (On my clutter-free kindle). I do know that there was a confluence of events that has made my life so much easier. I shed my brother, which allowed me to put myself first. I paid for the nutritionist counseling sessions, my friend came from overseas and rearranged my apt, I hired the cleaning crew, I made more decisions on keep or let go. I have been so lucky that these things came at one time. Has really pulled me together. I don't have any more of the "well as soon as this is done, I can tackle that". I'm no longer waiting for something to happen to pull my life together. I confided something very personal with my friend yesterday and I feel terrible to burden her with it but it felt natural to tell her. She was very, very supportive. And she promised me it wouldn't weigh on her. Party last night was lovely. Absolutely lovely. The cake was so tender, even though all the buttercream slid off in my way over. I didn't have my glasses with me as I'd worn my sunglasses over. It was dark dark dark so the fourth (the evening was mom, the birthday girl who is also elderly, and another friend from the "outside"). So the other woman walked me home as I couldn't see very well and as we arrived at my scaffolding surrounded house, I said, do you need to use the restroom? A far cry from praying, please don't walk me home, please don't need the restroom. Look how far you've brought me. Let's keep going. Sending you all love, patience, calm. HELLO ANONY!!! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 30 August 2018 - 04:52 AM |
Hi Tillie, I would never suggest throwing out stuff behind anyone's back. I was just thinking that maybe since you had claimed the kitchen as your space, you could invoke that to get the grossberg out of the freeezer. But it sounds like keeping control of the chest freezer is better and you can't do both. You manage your living situation really well. I hope you know that I am never being critical of it. You have so many good ideas for us, I just keep hoping "maybe she hasn't thought of this, and it will help her!" My body is sore today, but it's muscle sore, which is a good thing. My elbow still hurts, but it is better. It has hurt a little bit for weeks. I had to pick up the recycling bins for school yesterday and get dh some ham, and I was thinking about getting an elbow brace while I was out, but it was hurting so much less, I forgot. So I am extra impressed with your list trick! I wasn't feeling like I should have made the pasta from scratch. I just thought it was funny. I actually made the ravioli because I really like ravioli and in the store it is always stuffed with cheese I can't eat. It was a gift for myself, so fully appreciated - lol. Tatoulia, you ar doing a great job with your clothes and accessories. Is the party today? Enjoy your cake! Mine is gone. Dh are 3/4 of it, which is good. I just wanted a little. I'm glad you got to vent about your brother. Did you know that Dorothy Breininger from Hoarders wrote a book about how clearing out your physical and emotional clutter can help you overcome bad eating habits and lose weight? I stopped at the library yesterday and saw it and checked it out. (I checked out 6 books. I love the library. I love books, and the library makes me bring them back instead of keeping them, and it's free! I try to think of it as "the place I store all the books I don't need to have right now." I did get both guest beds made, and those rooms feel so much more calm. Dd is coming home Saturday, and we are all driving up to her new apartment with her stuff. I will be free to pack whatever she doesn't take into bins in the basement for her to address later (primarily her childhood stuff) and I will get to reclaim a small worktable she has buried. Today I have my class and I have not set any other goals. I know there are leftovers for dinner. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2018 - 05:11 PM |
Hello 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 That seems to always be the biggest hurdle to overcome, putting things away. Yeah, using the deep freeze for myself works, just don't need that much space. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 29 August 2018 - 01:29 PM |
Thanks for the nice newsy posts. SubC you certainly do accomplish a lot in a day, but I know the feeling of how much hasn't been done. I agree with Tillie's prioritizing suggestions. And you must rest your elbow! Tillie that is so awful regarding the freezer. Just make sure that the current compromise still works for you. If I agree, any hate-brained idea to just have the food outside brings a host of new, and worse, problems. I talked to a friend today and she asked me about brother. I was so shocked to hear his name. I ended up telling her about things and I felt lighter afterward. I re-learned how to fold and put away laundry on this very message board. I'd forgotten how to fold and put away. Some of that was a direct result of having too much stuff and not enough places to put things. That is becoming less and less and less of a problem. I felt the same way re emptying the dishwasher. Now I realize it takes no time because I've gotten rid of scads of dishes and Tupperware and what I use now fits nicely in my cabinets. My upper cabinets need a second pass as does study area's closet. I went through my costume jewelry again to see if I have anything to donate at work. I had two bracelets and two belts. I've decided that the shirt I wore yesterday is the last time I'll wear it. I've only worn it twice. I washed it last night and I will take to the donations at work. I might be able to pair it with a cute skirt and then someone would have an interview outfit or a work wear outfit. I like the top but I don't see myself wearing it again. And it's super cute so time to let someone else love it. Tillie we are having dangerously hot weather. I'm probably going to work from home again tomorrow. Will make the buttercream frosting soon. It shouldn't take more than 30 seconds for the butter to soften!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2018 - 10:08 AM |
Good Morning Everyone 🙂 Hi Subclinical 🙂 About the deep freeze and the fridge freezer... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 29 August 2018 - 05:19 AM |
Hi Tatoulia, I hope your cakes turn out o be fantastic! How can one go wrong with extra chocolate? I hope you are feeling less sad. Watching our animal friends age is hard. Tess, just think, you were able to lean up to the point where you could let workers in in TEN MINUTES! That is really good. Tillie, do you think Stephen would notice if you cleaned out the freezer? Isn't the kitchen supposed to be your space? I had a really full day yesterday. dh and I had a long talk about me being tired all the time. He doesn't think it's exhaustion in the physical sense, he thinks it is depression and a lot of it is life overwhelming me. I am working on setting myself up for successes early in the day and limiting tasks/goals (for example - yesterday I went out to pick a melon for lunch. The garden was weedy and the squash had some overgrown ones. I reminded myself that the task was "pick a melon" and I had already done my outside work (stalls) for the day. I did let myself pick the 8 biggest squash since that was pretty quick. Two were still small enough to eat and the chickens got the others. I successfully escaped inside with my melon. Weeding is an option for this morning, but I don't know, my elbow still hurts pretty badly from stalls yesterday. I think I need to get a brace. Task creep is a real problem for me. Also, I will set too General a task, like "laundry" (when is that done?) so yesterday I set "wash and dry a load of whites" and "put away laundry" (there were 4 clean loads in baskets) when I was putting the laundry away, I realized there were sheets from the two guest beds - which I usually keep made up. Making two beds with a sore elbow is a big deal, but folding and putting away the sheets when I need to put them on the beds.... I put one basket of sheets in each room, added "make beds" to today's list, and checked off "put away laundry". No creep! I made ice cream in the ice cream maker yesterday, and homemade ravioli (well, semi homemade) - I used premade pasta. But I bottle fed the grandmother of the goat who gave the milk for the cheese I made to use in the filling, so that balances out, right?;) Today is mostly about lesson plans. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 10:47 PM |
Hi Tatoulia 🙂 YEA! for an easy to use clean & organized kitchen to bake in! ;D While you are thinking about a long time ago Tigger is a very lucky baby to be so loved. (((HUGS))) | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 09:14 PM |
Tess! WTG! You survived! I am pleased the gas emergency didn't cause any damage and I'm so pleased you lived thru the workers being there. I AM SO SORRY this happened to you. Yes please relax. I know the embarrassment, Tess, I really do. Sometimes I just tell people I'm depressed since there's nothing anyone can say to that. Tillie, your self-described diddly squat sounds like quite a bit to me! I just baked mini bundt cakes for the dinner tomorrow. At the last minute I decided to make them marbled so I put some cocoa powder into the batter. I'm may have put in too much because the batter tasted a bit strong. Oh well. Then I overfilled the pans. All around a bumpy start to baking again BUT I could find everything I needed and everything was washed. I feel successful. I kept cleaning as I went so after I pop those poor overweight cakes from their pans, I'll be able to spray down the counters. Tough day here. Tigger's test results show that he's a really old cat. I'm pretty upset. BF is upset but keeping it light. Meanwhile my second mother called me and time is making us all so old. And I've been thinking about stuff from a long time ago. So emotionally I'm fragile. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 07:33 PM |
Hey Ya'll 😉 I managed to do diddly squat today. I would like to use the freezer on the fridge instead of the deep freezer. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 04:10 PM |
Hello Tess 🙂 | |
| Tess | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 03:29 PM |
Hi Friends! Thank GOD I cleaned over the weekend. Today there was a gas emergency and workers had to come in. I was still not pleased, but I survived. I didn't have enough time to panic, which is also a blessing. I took like 10 minutes to speed clean before I let them in. Oh man. I don't think I can do another thing today. I feel like I ran a marathon. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 01:05 PM |
Good Morning Everyone 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Lazy day today, 11:00am and I am still sitting here in bed. Just waiting for the zinnias at the far end to finish flowering before I rip them all out and start over there. ;P | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 August 2018 - 06:58 AM |
Black Forest cake! So delicious! I'm excited about your upcoming baking, Tillie! And tonight or tmr I'm baking mini bunds cakes for a friend of my mom's. There will be four of us at the friend's birthday. I'll bring take-out and the cakes and the other person ?on the outside' will bring fruit salad and a green salad. Ok time to shower. I'm already late for work. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 07:44 PM |
YEA! for Tigger being a good boy at the doctor today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 07:35 PM |
OHHH! Black Forest cake!!! ;P YUMMY! Thanks for the sugar reducing tip. I definitely will do that. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 07:31 PM |
Your husband is very dear, SubC. I like him. Tillie, I'm glad you are making your life more manageable while still keeping it filled with beauty. Thank you for the nudges on the cabinet?it absolutely is ready to be cleaned. There are things in there that won't fit somewhere else but they are all clean and sorted. There are some things that can go up high. I just haven't done it. I looked at my fridge and thought it was just so dirty on the inside. There werent more than five things to toss but the shelves were grungy. And I'm so glad they cleaned it today. My whole house is just so clean and lovely. I didn't feel like giving them two big projects. So next time I absolutely will have the cabinet scrubbed. I may actually add a second cabinet to the mix. This was just a matter of deciding the fridge was gross and I'm in it every day and I deserve better. The cabinet has been finished in terms of clearing out and making decisions. I love these ladies. They work so hard and are so pleasant. Tigger had a bit of a rough time at the vet's and I had to walk outside for a while. I'd rather be hot then listen to the kitty cry. He's fine. They did blood and urine and we will get results tomorrow. He may have a thyroid problem as his gland was swollen (TELL ME ABOUT IT, TIGGER) I was in the same boat eight years ago. Your story about your husband reminded me of a few years ago when I was upset about something non-work related. And there was a party going on at work and I was getting ready to just leave because I was frustrated with my family's shenanigans. And he said, take off your coat and go back into the party. You know how much the young people like you. So yes, do your best SubC then get the training from your nice to-worker. Love you all. Garbage and recycling are out. My house is sparkling and with God as my witness, the fridge is just so nice. Oh and there were two baking sodas in there and I've already used one on kitchen drain. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 07:09 PM |
Tatoulia, I am glad you have a clean fridge, but no more putting off the cabinet, ok? Tillie, depending on how much of a sweet tooth you have, you might even be able to cut the sugar down more - especially with ripe bananas. Maybe just scoop a tablespoon back out of your measuring cup before you add it? I find I can cut the sugar back on a lot of things, but dh has more of a sweet tooth. The parents are hardest for me because I like children better than I like adults. It's probably me, not them. The cake is Black Forest and dh already ate half of it! I'm going to have a slice later. Also, we had a long talk about me being tired and he said he thinks i'm Not tired, i'm Overwhelmed. I cried. He made me say out loud something that I was not going to do. I picked the online training for the new class information management ap at school. He said "ok. just start using it. Then when it doesn't work, go down to the tech guy and have him walk you through it. You like him." Then he asked what I wanted to do and I said create order in my environment. So he made dinner (used up the tomatoes) while I did dishes, started laundry, put the rest of last week's lettuce in the compost and tossed the big tub of luffa seeds i've been saving for two years to the chickens. Then I put the packaging from the lettuce in the tub and I will throw it away when I go to the grocery store. Letting go of past mistakes. When (if) I am ready to plant luffas, I can buy a new pack of seeds. Now I am making ice cream mix. It has to cool a little before the vanilla goes in. I feel better. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 05:00 PM |
Hello 🙂 Hi Subclinical 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 My garden is easier to water now, takes hardly any time at all. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 02:02 PM |
Hello Ladies! Excellent work at the food bank today, SubC! I am proud of you. I'm excited about your new students. That is a lot of newbies all at once. Tea in bed sounds so comforting, Tillie! I did not have the cabinet scrubbed down?I decided on the fridge because that has been bothering me. They did a great job on my house. So clean. The fridge looks beautiful. I'll give them the cabinet task in two weeks! They do a wonderful job on my house. I am so happy with them!!! They will do anything for me and I appreciate their hard work. They even clean kitty's box. I need to get a new box of baking soda for the fridge. We are taking BF's cat to vet today. He's an old cat but we are just there for a check up. Tillie we are going to have hazy hot and humid weather this week. I'm baking a birthday cake either tomorrow or Wednesday. I haven't baked in ages! I am looking forward to my class in October on cake decorating! I am so so so salty from last night's food. Just drinking water and iced tea today to flush out the salt. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 12:52 PM |
Tatoulia, yes, inquiring minds want to know if the cabinet got washed out! Tillie, i'm Glad your garden changes are pleasing you. Open house went well. I was really exhausted though. We have 70 new kids this year. I think about 20 of them are in my classes,and their parents require a lot of extra hand holding. Today I went to the food bank. We got way too many baked goods. I was good though - I brought home only two plastic grocery bags of bread - some of which I will eat, two small jewel boxes of tomatoes that have to be sorted out - about half for me and half for chickens - and a 6" round cake to share with dh. I let them throw the giant stack of boxes of stale donuts into the dumpster. I still have some lettuce and stale bread left from last week. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 09:29 AM |
Good Morning Everybody 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 This morning is so lovely, quiet and cool. Only 65 degrees right now. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 August 2018 - 08:54 AM |
I'm sorry to hear about your sick headache, Tillie and I hope you are feeling better today. Great work, Tess! Very satisfying to get rid of things! Keep up the good work. My cleaners come today. I'm pretty excited. Our miserably hot weather is making a return this week. Had a fun time with mom yesterday then BF and I went out for dinner. I feel salty today. Tess I too hate the heat. I have Graves Disease and I have an extreme intolerance to heat. I am miserable all the time. I don't have a comfortable temperature. I see my new doctor next week. Ok I'll put the AC on now and take a shower. I'm having my ladies clean the fridge today. | |