| Tillie | Posted: 14 June 2018 - 04:29 PM |
Welcome to the NEW and hopefully improved message board page. 🙂 | |
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| Subclinical | Posted: 17 September 2018 - 10:36 AM |
I got stabbed to check for aneamia. They'll call with results... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 17 September 2018 - 05:47 AM |
Good morning! Tillie, is there any hope of talking to Steven about the cat freezer? I'm glad he let you into your storage area. I don't know about the tape. I think it's one of those things where you have to either laugh or cry. I worry about fire at your place. I don't suppose there is a fire martial who would ever come make Steven clean up? I also worry about your skin. do you think it could be chemicals? I suppose it could also be bugs or stress. Do you have brown recluse spiders there? Tatoulia, yay for an electric fireplace! And how nice to have your wardrobe all together! I am still using the "going to lose weight" excuse to avoid doing mine. The bathing suit I wore to swim last week has got to go though. I don't even know why I wore it, except I guess I felt like restarting swimming in a brand new suit was too "novicey" i'll wear one of my new suits tomorrow. I have my doctor's appointment today. Cold is in full swing, but I am going anyway. I cleaned up just a little in the guest room yesterday. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 16 September 2018 - 11:04 PM |
Hi Tatoulia How lucky you will be to have that electric fire place! WTG! for grocery shopping and evaluating your wardrobe. 😉 Hi Subclinical I really wish I could get that deep freeze out of the pantry so that I could use the space to store my space heaters. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 16 September 2018 - 07:58 PM |
SubC I am so sorry about your cold! Pretty miserable to be sick. Especially so early in the school year. Feel better! I am impressed by your yoga and swimming! I'm sure being less than thrilled has something to do with not cleaning for in-laws visit! Tillie! He cleared a path! I love it that you have, essentially, crime scene tape to secure your area. Now that I've written that, I feel sad. Glad you have your heaters out. I suspect my place will be measurably more pleasant this winter once I get my electric fireplace, which I should be able to order this week. I did precious little today. I did go to the grocery store to get mom a few things?last night I did the basics and today I walked down to the store to get meat, eggs, laundry soap. I have my work wardrobe set for fall, with the exception of shoes. I would like navy and black but think I will do just navy as I do have black heels in good shape for the winter. I am not buying any more clothes as I have enough in my current size and I'm thrilled. At some point I'll be down another size. So happy to be getting medium tops and size 12 dresses and skirts. I have at least one size 12 skirt that I do not yet fit into, so that will be something to look forward to. I organized all of my blouses today and I have a very good idea of what clothes I have. I have two dresses that I can probably wear one more time each. I also have a dress that never fit me and it's perfect right now. So I guess I did do something today as I worked on my closet. At mom's today I helped put some of her things away, completely at her direction and at her suggestion. I shall see you all tomorrow. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 16 September 2018 - 05:27 PM |
Hello Everybody Hi Subclinical 🙂 Steven finally moved a lot of the big heavy hoard from in front of my Winter storage space in the garage. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 16 September 2018 - 07:11 AM |
Hi, I am still here. Tatoulia, you have some much going on! Great job being an adult! I had a good week with my kids, but one of them gave me a cold. I very rarely get sick, so I am grumpy about it. The house didn't get quite as bad this week, but i'm Still having a very hard time keeping up with everything. Haven't cleaned up for inlaws yet (hmm, I wonder if it could be because i'm Not excited that they are coming...) I did add swimming into my week on Thursday. This coming week I plan to go twice. Plus yoga three mornings a week with dh, which so far is making me more stiff and sore, but he promises it will pay off soon. I spent yesterday babying my cold - just sitting around, watching videos, drinking hot drinks and eating salty snacks and fruit. Today the stuffy head part is worse, but my throat doesn't hurt any more, so I "feel better" in general. Planning to do some very overdue stall work. (Also need to brush my bunny, but bunnies are vulnerable to respiratory infections, so no go.) Accomplishments yesterday: talked to my mom on the phone for an hour (it was her birthday) cleared off a small corner of my desk - reshelved books and filed or recycled papers. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 11:12 PM |
What a lovely afternoon you had! 😀 WAY TO GO! being such a responsible adult. DARN! that bad dog leaving cat fur on the couch! You are such a loving daughter for your mom (((HUG))) Happy the electrical work will be an easy job. Pretty much did nothing this afternoon. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 08:52 PM |
Thank you, Tillie, good advice on the pillows! I knocked over an etching today and broke the glass. So I was an adult and I took it out of the frame, threw away the glass, and put the etching inside the top of my desk where I store I framed art. Then I wrapped up the glass carefully, took the frame apart (this had been framed by someone else and was in a metal frame) and I put the screws, etc in a ziplock. I also vacuumed up in the event there was a tiny shard or two that could get caught in a kitty paw. Then I thought, as I put away the tools and the vacuum, that's what adults do. I gave the couch a quick go-over with the vacuum because in the few days since cleaners were here, some dog came in and left cat fur everywhere. Bf and I had an enjoyable afternoon including an early dinner at the Wayside Inn. Please google it if you don't know it. Very charming, historic, and delicious yankee food. I had the scallops and they were tasty. Mashed potatoes and green beans. So yummy. We walked around the grounds and saw two different wedding couples. One couple was taking pictures in front of the Mary Martha Chapel and the other was in front of the Grist Mill. So beautiful. That is where I plan to take mom for her birthday lunch with the friend who is flying in. I had Sunday dinner there twice over the summer with my overseas friend. (Turkey dinner both times) I stopped at mom's on the way home and took out her garbage, cleaned the cat's box and dropped off milk, bread, etc. I'm excited about the prospect of the on demand water heater, Tillie. I need something switched out on my electric box but none of it is expected to be too difficult. Today's electrician will not be my installer, I just wanted an opinion on my fuse box and other stuff. So I'm feeling good about all of that. HELLO EVERYBODY. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 03:16 PM |
HELLO EVERYBODY Hi Tatoulia 🙂 If/when that woman returns your pillows in the condition that you expect them to be I had just gone 3? days without any scarf & barf to clean up, with four cats I was lucky. I picked up all cat toys, moved around all cat beds & perches & scratch posts and other furniture and vacuumed the carpet. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 12:09 PM |
Scarf and barf! Kitty did do that yesterday. Not sure when she'll do it again. Sometimes daily, sometimes she skips a day. I'm thinking of replacing my hot water heater with an in demand one. Electric. My house does not have gas. So BF went someone down to check to see what I'll need to do electric-wise to be ready and prepared. I'll want to move forward on this very soon. As usual, it's $$. Enjoy your day, Tillie! And thanks for helping me figure out the masonry dust and how to clear it out of my system. The place will be beautiful once finished. Pillow lady got back to me. I've told her I must have by first week of October. She bites off more than she can chew. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 12:02 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Those kind of dreams are exhausting! WTG! for having the electrician in. Hope there is no real bad news, except that Miss Kitty was inconvenienced. I keep stressing that here we are not just a cluttered dirty house. Shaping up to be another lovely day today. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 11:15 AM |
I am feeling more like myself today. Not fighting extreme fatigue. I was still fighting yesterday but I had more spring in my step. Tillie I bought saline for my nose and that is helping me. You suggested Neti pot. So between stopping the new meds and spraying my nose (two unrelated things as my meds were not for allergies), I am feeling significantly better. I was feeling like I had a bit of a sore throat as well as some dizziness. Well here I am, scads better. I had an upsetting dream last night where I was cleaning out a house for a move and we were no where near ready and I didn't know what to do with brother's things so I was making tons of decisions (surprisingly easy on the decisions on everything, just the sheer quantity) and the kitchen cabinets were full and my room was full and I couldn't get mom on the phone and the movers were coming and for some reason I had quit my job. So I was doing all this stuff. It was easy but the volume was amazing. I'll take that as a sign I need to clear out another cabinet tonight. I'm changing my sheets, on a second load of laundry, I just made breakfast and the electrician has come and gone. So I'm feeling much much better today. Kitty is back to normal after having the electrician here. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 September 2018 - 09:13 AM |
Togetherness really counts when the world is upside down. The human connection is meaningful and real. Tillie you have enriched my life immensely. Everyone here has. You've helped me tackle things and face things and make myself better. You helped me see that I was miserable and it wasn't just a matter of, "well I need to put those things away and it will be fine". You've helped me open up my eyes and get me to a place where I don't hate myself and I don't hate my house. True connection. True friendship. You are just what my heart needed. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 10:29 PM |
Hi Tatoulia 🙂 When the marathon bombing happened I had my TV on and was devastated as the news came in. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 09:22 PM |
Tillie a brownstone I lived in once, many years ago, still had gas in the sconces above one of the fireplaces. Can you imagine that? Much like your lamppost! I do appreciate your checking in with me last night. We were scared and upset and worried. When the marathon bombing happened, we were not at the marathon due to the fact I had to take kitty to vet. After dropping her at home, BF went to park his car in the garage and I ran to mom's to drop off something for her. I was supposed the call him when I was done so we could walk over to watch the race (it's an all-day event here) and my phone wouldn't work. Couldn't make a call. So I started to walk up to him and I saw all sorts of emergency vehicles flying down the street. Motorcycles, ambulances, fire, everything. So I walked up to his work and I was already crying and he put the police radio on and the tv. Do you know the first two people to contact us were 1) a young girl across the street and 2) a man in Oman. The closest and the furthest. We finally had to send multiple group texts because so many people were trying to find us, as we are big marathon fans. I heard from one old BF by email who said, you don't have to talk to me, just send the word "safe." The next few days were terrifying, but one thing that was oddly comforting were the armed forces on my street. The days that followed were horrific, esp the chaos that included the shootout and manhunt. I had watched it unfold til 2:30 AM and that situation (murder of a police officer, carjacking, shoot out) hadn't yet been publicly connected to the marathon bombing so I was just a terrible wreck. The next day I begged BF not to go to work (city was on lockdown/no subways, no one was to be on streets, etc) and BF went to office and kept lights off til a police officer gave him a thumb's up. Various neighbors went to spend the day with him and were so grateful to have a safe place to sit and have a coffee and just feel normal. Somebody even sent him a thank you note (a male neighbor) who said that when he saw BF at work, he knew everything would be OK. I haven't thought about that in a while. But I felt so loved and cared for then, as I did this AM, when I saw you checking in on me. Thank you. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 04:05 PM |
Hi Again Just now 2:00pm | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 02:15 PM |
Hello Everybody 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Hope it is all over with now & will never happen again. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 11:19 AM |
Tillie thank you so much. I used to regularly travel to Lawrence in ny previous job. Absolutely terrifying. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 10:19 AM |
(((HUG))) So glad you are alright! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 06:48 AM |
I don't know why the word bike was there. I'm so upset and scared. I am in Boston Proper so a distance away. Can you imagine. I am scared and heartbroken | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 06:40 AM |
All safe here. I was glued to tv and didn't get on line. Thank you. I'm going to go put on TV. what a terrible bike thing. So terrible and unable to wrap my head around it. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 September 2018 - 12:09 AM |
I wish Tatoulia would check in. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 13 September 2018 - 10:24 PM |
Scooter is such a jerk. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 13 September 2018 - 05:03 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Subclinical 🙂 Went shopping this morning. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 13 September 2018 - 05:08 AM |
Good morning all! Having a slow start with my coffee this morning. I'm feeling a little falling behind, but then I just checked my last post and I DID wash a load of dishes and take the compost out yesterday. Tatoulia, I hope you get your medicine straightened out quickly! It sounds like a really tough struggle. I enjoying hearing about your cleaning crew and imagining them working their way through your house. How lovely to have the cleaning fairies come while you slept! I was very tired last night and went to bed early and the "I played guitar and had a snack and didn't clean up" fairy came. Oh well. He's making dinner tonight. Tillie, did you get your groceries? We call those bins "random boxes" at one point I had over 100 random boxes. I got it down to two or three, but I think it is up again. Mostly in the studio. I tend to make random boxes when I am trying to clean up a space really fast. (I'm betting dd's discards will end up in random boxes so I can get the guest room ready for the in-laws.) although, that is sort of a category. I'm taking one thing from her pile to one of her old teachers today. (It's a nice souvenir from something Dd and the teacher's daughter did and the teacher wants it) CM, I am pulling for your kitty! Poor little girl. I know she is miserable and that has to weigh on you and make everything else harder. Good job on getting rid of the not fitting clothes! I am still keeping my not fitting clothes, but they are a size or two too small, and it is an act of faith. Checked my blood pressure after school again yesterday and it was down to 111/70! I have a major project at work I have been pushing for two years and it is coming together finally! I am excited. I plan to start swimming again after work today. It is hard to block off the time, but I have to remind myself that I get more done when I feel better. And, I have been waiting to tell you this because it is such small progress, but it has been holding steady all week, so - I have lost 2 lbs. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 September 2018 - 11:23 PM |
Good Evening Everyone Hi CriticalMass 🙂 I have been doing some experimenting with different cat kibble/cereal and found one that has greatly reduced the amount of scarf & barf but now my girl kitty has the runs, so I will keep experimenting. To me Peter Davison will always remind me of Tristan Farnan from the BBC production of "All Creatures Great And Small" even though I enjoyed him as "Dr. Who" too. Junk bunkers is what Steven does best. Hi Tatoulia 🙂 | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 12 September 2018 - 10:12 PM |
Hi, I've wanted to post the last couple of days but been caught up in the whirlwind of life. I'm glad I'm keeping up better with posting here though, and reading what everyone's been up to. I was tired Monday, due to shorted sleep. Then yesterday being 9/11, I wanted to go to noon Mass as a spiritual way of honoring the day. I had a busy schedule, but overall the day went off well. We watched a show about 9/11 in the evening - sobering but I never want to forget, and I wish this country could be more unified like we were after that happened. I had also taken girl kitty into the vet first thing yesterday so they could try to get a urine sample straight from her bladder with a needle (ouch!). But by today, we'd gotten calls that they had no luck so now she has to go to a different place where they have an ultrasound. That will be Friday, because of a funeral I am going to tomorrow and the way these vets seem to keep weird hours, that was the soonest we could get an appointment. And I sure hope she doesn't have to spend the weekend! Poor baby was SO upset today when I picked her up, and she's got to be in pain because she peed in the carrier - and made a couple of really unearthly cries when she did. Today was just nervous breakdown day for me trying to coordinate the appointment. Had my roommate communicating with two vets, then texting or calling me, and me trying to see what would work with the funeral and with a friend I'd said I would drive to her doctor's on Friday. That is the sort of thing that really grinds my ADHD brain's gears, and from there we crash into anxiety and rage territory. SubC, I can so relate to the crying jag - although since I don't have a hubby or my mom or someone to hold me when I cry, sometimes it stays bottled up, which doesn't help at all. Sometimes I can hold my bunny and sob into his fur! Or at least just be calmed by his softness. I also understand the thing about showers. It's been hard not having my own bathroom for one thing, where I can keep the items needed instead of having to carry them in and out (and inevitably forget things and have to dart back nekkid to get them!). And where the dog isn't allowed at all, so I don't have to worry about getting black dog hairs all over my towel, my bare feet, etc. If I can ever get these crazy broken up weeks to go more smoothly so I can get to the gym, weirdly enough I do pretty well taking showers there because they're roomy and I have everything I need in my bag I take. Take care of that elbow - I had tendonitis in the base of my thumb a few years back from using a non-ergonomic quilting rotary cutter, and it's stubborn to get rid of and prone to return as I'm sure you know. Bromelain enzyme (it's in fresh pineapple, or tablets) and vegetarian glucosamine help some. Ice sometimes can help, or ice/warmth alternated. Oh, and my total sympathies on the new computer thing. I don't learn well from videos at all - I prefer written, perhaps with hands-on or having someone to ask (like in crocheting). Hope you can get it sorted without excess anguish. I'll say ixnay on the apple/garlic/cinnamon/onion bagels as well, being as I'm already a picky eater, LOL. Tatoulia, I confess to having been one who would do that thing with dishes of putting water in them but leaving them for days/weeks till they were stinky. That's one area where having roommates has helped me - learning to wash and rinse after each meal. I think I'll keep doing that even when I'm back out on my own; it seems ingrained enough now. Let's see, a few more miscellaneous things and then I'll say goodnight - It does feel SO good to donate too-large clothes - last week I took a couple pairs of pre-surgery sized jeans to the thrift shop. I hope to re-lose the few of my 30 lbs. that I regained last winter, then attack the goal of losing the next 30. That should put me to the point where I can assess what "fine tuning" may or may not be needed. The numbers on the scale vs. bone density, muscle mass, etc. will have changed since the last time I was down that far. But first I have to lose the weight! Wish me luck! Boy kitty still is doing some scarf & barf - with the new food he seems to be more prone to it. We've been watching a show on BritBox - "The Last Detective" starring Peter Davison (aka the 5th Doctor Who). He's the one we met at the Doctor Who con in 2016. I'll watch pretty much anything he stars in! Tillie, glad Steven moved something, anything, and hope he will be willing to do more. The 7-ft cabinet sounds like what one of my decluttering expert authors, Don Aslett, would call a "Junk Bunker." I hope I don't have too many "junk bunkers" in my life - it can sometimes be a fine line between organizing with containers the right way and having junk bunkers. Anyone on the east coast, where the hurricane approacheth - be safe! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 12 September 2018 - 08:54 PM |
Tillie we've been having a lot of rain. I don't mind these days but I do wish I could send some of it your way to reduce the fire dangers. I've been so fatigued I even checked my coffee to see if I bought decaf by mistake! I just woke up and I am drinking huge amounts of water so I can flush it out of my system. I am not calling dr just yet as he is new and I don't have the strength. It's funny, I was making a hair appt for Friday and I thought: how can I possibly stay awake. I hope you got your groceries tonight! BF called me when he left for grocery store but I couldn't wake up enough to go with him. I too need some things but my brain is a little foggy. I know I'll feel better tomorrow. I have volunteer work tomorrow night til 7 and I'm going to have to be awake for it. SubC I hope you had a good day. I am missing Mar, CM, Tess and Anony. Remember, we always are here for you no matter what's been going on. Here to support you!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 September 2018 - 05:39 PM |
Your new weight is definitely something that must be factored in when taking medications. You being to the point of now having a cleaning lady in is something that has us all ecstatic! More cloud cover and much windier. Have my grocery list made up, checking to make sure I have it all written down. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 12 September 2018 - 04:02 PM |
Tillie I looked up the med's side effects and the muscle cramps (had over the weekend), the headaches and the fatigue are all lisyed. I've taken these meds before but I'm different now. Started them on Thursday and I haven't been right since. .My thyroid should be accurate so I'm not worried about that. If anything, my weight loss would put me in hyper not hypo so I think it's the new, non-thyroid med. even BF said today there's something wrong. So I'm going to stop the med and see how I fare. I can't be at work and having my head drop to my desk (which again sounds like thyroid). I've tried taking a walk and caffeine with no luck. And couple that with the environmental dust and allergens. Total wreck. Cat and I are going to lay down. Tillie you and everyone here got me to the cleaning lady point in my life. I am grateful for that. | |