| Tillie | Posted: 26 December 2017 - 11:52 PM |
For all of you posting on phones and other small devices... | |
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| Subclinical | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 08:47 PM |
What is this raw chocolate? A man who understands about th3 skunks in your ceiling is not to be passed up lightly! Tatoulia, i'm glad you are happy with your new things. Tillie, you will have to enjoy spring for the rest of us. Dh made me clean the new room today, which made me grumpy and took all morning. He is tired of me "leaving my stuff lying all over the place" in here, which basically means I will be spending less time in this room because most of my projects take multiple days and it is so much more work to keep cleaning them up. I will be farther from the snacks.... But then I did get out and work in my studio and I made three projects for class. They need to firm up a bit before I put finishing details on them, so I wrapped them lightly until tomorrow. I think I am going to skip the food bank tomorrow. I really need more time for myself at home. I feel a little guilty, but hopefully it will help me make good use of the time here so that I don't feel like I should have just gone. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 08:46 PM |
Anony! An invitation to the opera! And being gracious when you declined?! Well I like him already! Just be yourself. Hope you two are a good fit! I fell asleep and just woke up. im running my ceiling fan, Anony, because I'm having a terrible time controlling my body temperature. I have a few health conditions including thyroid and I cannot get my temperature correct. My house is cold but I feel i need it cooler when I sleep. I will write more tomorrow, and I hope to have progress to report. And maintenance. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 03:53 PM |
~Raw chocolate ice coffee clinks!~ | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 01:17 PM |
Hi Tillie! It's raw here and sputtering. Some rain, some snow. I brought mom breakfast (she woke up around noon--good for her!) and I also had dinner packaged up for her. I brought her "fellow inmate" a nice blanket. I was carrying a lot of stuff (including a cup of coffee for mom) so I will bring the woman her clothes tomorrow. I changed mom's sheets then went to the grocery store, dropped off mom's groceries and now I'm home. I'm making lunch for myself. I'm dead tired but had stripped my sheets this AM so I had to force myself to put clean ones on. I suspect that after I eat I'll lay down for a bit. Kitty is in her little pod and looks very comfortable. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 11:47 AM |
Good Morning Everybody ๐ Hi Subclinical ๐ Hi Tatoulia ๐ I see on the weather report that there is still an awful lot of Winter weather hitting the country. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 08:33 AM |
Coffe clinks! I am up early today and happy about that. There are a lot of helicopters in the city--it is 1 Boston Day and the 5th anniversary of the marathon bombings. I am extremely happy with my purchases. Four sweaters and the rest are blouses and tops. I tend to wear classic clothes and buy pieces that can fit with my neutral suits and skirts. So I bought fresh spring colors. I also wear a lot of dresses but I have two new dresses so I am all set. I am doing a quick load of dark laundry then will try to do a load of towels before I go see mom. I have a bag to donate to the woman in my mother's assisted living. I carefully curate which clothes I think she'd like. I'm not taking her the boots because we are not the same shoe size plus she's in a wheelchair and I'm not sure of her footwear needs. One thing I know is she doesn't need these winter torture chambers for her feet. It's funny that you all mention having your feet comfy. I think to myself, anything is possible with the proper footwear. I wear comfy shoes to and from work and have a few pairs of heels in one of the closets at work. I also have heels here at home so if we are going out, I have some nice shoes to wear. So once I realized my boots were torturing me, I decided that there's no reason to hang onto them. I appreciate the support. Tillie! Barefoot outside! We are having record cold today and I think the marathon is going to be plagued with terrible weather tomorrow. I'm going to make breakfast and then see if mom wants to get together early. I think our weather will deteriorate as the day goes on. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 15 April 2018 - 07:04 AM |
Tatoulia, i'm Glad your brother was pleasant. How nice that you got to watch a Movie! Anony, I can almost see your new view. I love it when one job fixes two things! Dh moved some dirt yesterday to fill in a low area. I am really looking forward to the day when the grading is finished and the whole dirt pile is gone. Tillie, how lovely that you could spend the day outside! I did not get to any of my extra things yesterday. The weather was too dreary and my batteries never got charged enough. I did catch up somewhat on the dishes. Maybe today will be better. It's supposed to rain all day again though. And snow tomorrow. Tillie, I try to avoid the styrofoam and straws, but I forget to ask for no straw and then it comes already in the drink, so it is trash before I remember it. And then dh wanted to take his pizza home... most of the styrofoam I have right now is packaging from the new cabinets, lights, and fans we put in the addition. In the normal course of life I rarely buy anything new in packaging. I have a new point of effect on plastic in my world. I learned a technique for making forms out of clay that uses patterns. You can make single use paper patterns over and over, or you can make a tar paper pattern that can be reused for a long time. But my school laminates giant posters to put up for events, and I realized you could use a laminated poster instead of tar paper, and it will last a long time and not go in the landfill. So now all the posters come to my room when they are taken down. So far I have reclaimed three posters. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 11:51 PM |
Hello Everybody! ๐ WOW! I spend the day outside and now I see so many posts! Hi Porter ๐ Hi Subclinical ๐ Hi Anonymoniker ๐ Hi Tatoulia ๐ Had a lovely time today outdoors.
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| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 08:48 PM |
Anony is right--you are absolutely amazing, SubC. Truly amazing. You are wonderful in a million ways. I admire you greatly. Anony thank you for the kind words. They mean so much to me. Imagine my happiness in learning that the sand has improved your life and your view! I am so proud of you and your hard work. You are hardworking with the kindest heart. Went well with brother today. He is completely untethered. Yet pleasant enough. Afterward i left my brother I stopped to do some clothes shopping and I treated myself to a number of sweaters, blouses and tops. They will freshen up my work wardrobe considerably. And I definitely can find some things to let go of. After I shopped I went to the movie theatre to see what was playing, called BF and he met me there. We haven't been to the movies in a long time. So a nice time all around. Now I'm home in pjs and ready to climb into bed. goodnight, all. I'll see you tomorrow!! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 02:18 PM |
Tatoulia, good for you for passing on the boots! I hope things go ok with your brother. Anony, duct tape comes in a lot of colors and patterns. People make art with it. Search "duct tape wall designs" or "duct tape wall art" I use it to finish the edges of my ware boards. The fancy colors and patterns are more expensive, but I view them as a treat. I don't feel particularly amazing. But I did go to the activity. And I was able to make a little girl happy by checking her goat and confirming that it is pregnant and even being able to tell her which buck was the father based on due dates (the kids are too small to belong to the first breeding - the goat will kid in June) I learned some new and useful things, and networked a little about some future livestock. And I committed myself to do another thing. But it is a favor for a woman who invested a lot of energy in my daughters over the years, and it is simple, so how could I say no? I did not stop and pick up the dog crate that was out for the trash. Then I came home just in time to see my goat deliver twins - girl and boy. The girl is really beautiful. Minimal assist (I just talked to her and helped dry them off because it is chilly.) I also put up a heat lamp for them. Once both kids were up and eating I came in for a break, but I am going back out to admire soon. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 01:31 PM |
~Chocolate Coffee clinks!!!~ | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 01:30 PM |
~Chocolate Coffee clinks!!!~ | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 09:59 AM |
Good morning--quick drive by! Tillie I'm glad you had fun at the sale! I want you to know I am donating my good snow/rain boots today. They've only been worn a handful of times and are actually fairly stylish. They hurt my feet. The bottoms of my feet. So Ive decided to get rid of them. Generally I have to dispose of my winter boots because all the walking I do wears them down til they leak. Concrete really wears things down. Not this time. They hurt. SubC please hang in there. I know you are struggling and I hope you can get back to swimming soon. Anony I am excited that your neighbors are doing the earth house! This will be very informative for you. Hello to everyone including Joanie! My blood work wasn't great but we are working on tweaking my meds. Meanwhile other health areas had improved remarkably. So all in all I am positive. I am off to see brother who unfortunately is wanting to talk about a subject that is best described as not grounded in reality. He will become explosive if I say the wrong thing AND if I don't say the right thing. I'm thinking we need to have the conversation close to his home and not in my car. So I can leave if necessary. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 08:00 AM |
Yay for the coffee and tea table! Weaning Marcie off Starbucks makes up for a lot of paper plates. ๐ I showered. | |
| Porter | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 07:47 AM |
The highlight of my week. Marcie discovered my coffee and tea table. Its ust a sofa table with coffee and tea makers on it, 2 I made a her an energy drink that made her so energetic she had no choice but to direct her energy on to me passionately. I thought it was very funny . It's the same drink I make to make me feel like I Has no choice but to clean house. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 05:55 AM |
Porter, I am enjoying reading about how your relationship progresses. (Except the plates and forks - those are an issue for me and I am hoping Marcie takes over dishes and you can use them again ๐ ) Roller skating is good exercise. It sounds like you are being good for each other. I would love to be able to see the new art closet. What a gift! My studio has become very bad again. Mostly messy, but also it is the end of the year and I have started bringing things home from my classroom. And the styrofoam. I am still storing styrofoam. I don't want it, but I can't figure out how to reuse it or where to recycle it or find anybody who does want it for anything. It is becoming a big problem and I am starting to feel it interfering with my life. Also, as I have gotten a lot of the cardboard out it has become more visible. Thursday dh and I went out to dinner at a pizza place. I spent many moments during the meal coming to grips with my plastic straw - which I left in my glass. Then at the end, we had one piece of pizza left and the waitress brought him a big styrofoam clamshell to take it home. It is still in my fridge. Anony, it sounds like your are making good progress on your living space! I hope you enjoy the earth building and learn a lot! I am worrying about everyone's ceilings. Dh had a change at work recently and is now working much longer hours. I have overbooked myself in a lot of areas, so we are both either away or busy or tired, and the house is not getting cleaned up. My bread ties and plastic tabs are starting to turn up everywhere because I broke the habit of throwing them out and now it is too difficult again. I think partly it is a stress response. I have not been able to swim all week because of time conflicts or maintenance problems at the pool. Swimming helps with the stress. I did go to the thrift store on Thursday but not buy anything. I want a new black skirt, and I tried on 5, but I didn't love any of them. Most of them were too tight, which was discouraging. I am still fighting my weight. And then I went on the pizza date, which was supposed to be fun, but feeling fat, and the straw, and the styrofoam... and then I get angry at myself because I can't just enjoy stuff like normal people. I have a 4h related activity today, so I couldn't sleep "late" as I usually do on saturdays. I need a shower badly - my hair is awful. Not swimming also breaks my shower schedule. Another teacher at work asked me about my not having trash service yesterday. She is on a very tight budget and wants to save the $85 fee. But i'm not sure she has the time and energy to make the lifestyle changes she would need to make it work. It's not about the trash fee for me. It's a little like if she asked about becoming vegan because she thought it would lower her cholesterol. (I am not vegan, just mostly vegetarian with very occasional fish/crustaceans/mollusks.) So much. Today, I am just going to focus on showering, and going to my activity, and making progress on ONE of my things to do areas. (I am not going to list them because I will get discouraged, but I will come back and tell you what I did.) | |
| Porter | Posted: 14 April 2018 - 02:13 AM |
Things were good this week. The difference I made this week was making her creative out let room better organized. She plays piano and harp. And has both in a parlor . But also painting . She's not great at it but she's very passionate about it . When I came back on Friday she had it all put in a mess . But I could tell she had been focussed on her new project. I didnt really love it . But I sense her passion for it . But eating out isn't very healthy and is more expensive. Marcie doesn't need to lose any weight at all.. This why I tried to implement her a creative outlet back into her life. So that we have space to learn change and grow on my fasting , non eating days. I know sometimes new couples spend too much time together and then start to resent their loss of freedom and alone time. I'd love nothing more than to have Marcie fill my senses as often as possible, but I respect her right to be who and what she is without being an "us". I know I'm over thinking it. It's ok . I'm just trying to be considerate and thoughtful. It will be at a year until we merge and a lot can happen in a year at my age. Which takes me back to my original motivation 3years ago. Well that's it for this week. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 13 April 2018 - 04:54 PM |
Hi Everyone ๐ Hi Anonymoniker ๐ So, this morning I went to that Spring event at the thrift shop. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 13 April 2018 - 12:21 PM |
~Coffee Clinks & a Good Morning to all!!!~ | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 April 2018 - 05:40 PM |
Hi Anonymoniker ๐ If the price is right I say go for the glittery copper one. Happy you can see that the good enough is really good enough in a job like clearing out under there. ๐ Been spending the day slowly picking through my stuff finding things to get rid of. The worst part of the ceiling collapse is right when you walk into my room, where I keep all my clothes and personal possessions. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 12 April 2018 - 12:06 PM |
~Good Morning to all!~ | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 April 2018 - 10:35 AM |
Good Morning Everyone ๐ Winds are still blowing and the predicted high for today is only 50 degrees. So, what are you all doing today? | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 April 2018 - 12:49 AM |
Hi Tatoulia ๐ WAY TO GO! I'm still awake at 10:45 because the wind is raging and gusting Have a little candle burning and the darn thing smells just like fresh baked cinnamon buns making me want one. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 11 April 2018 - 09:20 PM |
Quick check in. I shredded a lot of papers tonight, swept the hallway, almost finished my taxes and am running the dishwasher. I am tired. Tillie I hope you are ok with the ceiling collapse. I am terribly worried. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 April 2018 - 03:46 PM |
Hello Everyone ๐ Hi Anonymoniker ๐ You are just doing things to make your home a happier healthier place to live. ;D Just sorta kinda been doing stuff around here. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 11 April 2018 - 11:32 AM |
~โ~Coffee with raw chocolate clinks!!!~โ~ | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 April 2018 - 07:39 PM |
Hi Anonymoniker Just get up the big stuff on top of the sand. When more stuff falls or blows into this area you will then just need to rake that out. Without any kind of "bedding" materials under there | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 10 April 2018 - 03:30 PM |
.......โก....and another friend's Mom just died of cancer & the medical industry is wonderful with its Morphine & Hospice...โก....as im cleaning up this hideous insulation from under this trailer & watching the little pieces go everywhere, i know it sounds weird or somehow wrong, but getting the bulk of it & then covering it with sand seems like a logical option? There is not an obvious answer or solution....which seems to so often be the case with these projects....i dont know what to do. It will be so much extra work & toxins everywhere to get it all up & then refill it with sand....more insulation & stuff is gonna fall out, too.....this is how i lose motivation & enthusiasm.....~ยฟ~?~ยฟ~?~ยฟ~?~ | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 April 2018 - 12:59 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Woke up around 5:30am. Rolled over and went back to sleep until 10:00am. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 10 April 2018 - 12:00 PM |
...โก...but i want to add that i realize not all illnesses can be healed naturally, but my friend who did get ovarian cancer last year, is going to be a guest on a radio talk today about healing cancer naturally. She did do it! ~โก~ | |