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Tillie
Posted: 19 May 2014 - 09:54 AM
 

Lets see if a new thread will help solve some of the posting issues we have developed in the first, long running thread 😀

 

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Tillie
Posted: 03 September 2014 - 10:52 AM
 

Good Morning 🙂

Started the watering outside, fed the cats their breakfast.
Been reading articles on the interwebs.
Today I need to clean the bathroom, floors and wash some dishes.
But first I really should get dressed I guess.
"Heavy sigh", I really don't want to.
But I want it done for me, myself & nobody else.
So I will force myself to do it and afterwards I will be so happy that I did. 🙂

Off I go.....

 
diane
Posted: 02 September 2014 - 10:36 PM
 

I just wrote a long note and it disappeared, darn it x 2. Basically worked all day mostly in big bedroom. Has a storage area that is hoard to ceiling. Mice took Mollys food up in purses, she has been gone since November, so old food, I jumped and the hoard fell on me, only a few scratches. really sad how much crap I stuffed in there. at this moment, I never want to go in there again.
Organized some stuff on deck that re cluttered. fleeting thought, I am getting worse at clutter, just dealt with messes today, then read your posts, and feel much better and reminded me I have made lots of progress, thanks so much.

 
Dianne
Posted: 02 September 2014 - 11:28 AM
 

Diane, what an AMAZING amount of work you did on your car!! That is so inspiring!!

Decades ago I had a little kelly green Datsun. Two friends from work and I went to a drive thru lunch one day. When they finished eating they literally tossed their trash in the back driver's side and laughed. I was humiliated. My car did have a lot of trashy junk in it and even the passengers felt they could treat it like a trash can.

Another day I had to go to someone and say, "Hey, you dented my car when you opened your door into it. I saw the green paint from my car on your car door." She laughed too and said, "So what? Everybody knows your car is a wreck anyway."
It wasn't just the embarrassment about the car. I felt like I was trash too, that nobody respected me and I was a joke.

Most times after that that I kept the inside cleaned out on a daily basis. It was much harder with kids. Today I have a routine of every Wednesday making sure the vehicles are cleaned out, gassed up and have whatever I need replenished. Cleaned out just means taking stuff out that shouldn't be there, not really cleaning. But I never wash them, just figure the rain does a good enough job. (Clearly it doesn't.)

The grandkids were in my car recently and immediately commented on how dirty it was and how much animal hair and how badly it smelled. I had just put febreeze car fresheners in and Jakey said, "Well you better get your money back, it's not working at all." So I still have hoarder eyes and hoarder nose. I literally don't see or smell a problem. Bummer.

Diane, reading everything you did is encouraging me to at least get those vehicles washed. And I can vacuum the inside. I'm still too lazy to do deep cleaning but baby steps there too. 🙂

Think how far you've come in the past year. Such huge progress!!!

 
Tillie
Posted: 02 September 2014 - 10:32 AM
 

Good Morning 🙂

Hi LR2014 🙂
WAY TO GO!!! on the box reduction sorting.
Fantastic job you did on it! 😀
I know exactly the kind of inside windshield "haze" you mean.
Makes it so hard to see near sunset.

Wish my hoarder would do some cleaning on the truck.
Passenger side seat and floor is always full of assorted "stuff" that sticks to my feet or gets in the way so I can't buckle the seat belt or even sit normally in there.
Dash board has so much "stuff" piled on it that is always shifting and falling and is a hazard.
And everything is so filthy/grubby that I always bring a clean towel to sit on to try to keep my dress clean.
Some years ago his car had so much food related trash that there was an ant colony living in there, not just visiting the site but actually had their nest in the car.

I have no "have Tos" to do today except the usual cat related tasks.
So today I will hang out in my room straightening and generally playing around in there. 🙂
I need this "down time" after that three day weekend he just had.
He still has not done anything to improve things around here.
The Pack Rats are still all happy & safely residing here with me.

TTYL 🙂

 
LR2014
Posted: 02 September 2014 - 07:03 AM
 

Good morning. Following up on my goals from yesterday: I did eventually get them all done.

I ended up bringing home four boxes from storage to go through, and while I was at that storage place I rearranged some things to make the other boxes more readily accessible. I was able to reduce the four boxes I brought home down to one. I was able to make quick work of it once I got started. Some boxes took as little as five minutes to deal with! Most of the contents of the boxes were old papers that can now be shredded. I feel good about having finally started this project. It's been on my personal "to do" list for months.

Hearing diane talk about her car project reminded me that the inside windows of my vehicle needed attention, especially the windshield. While my supper was cooking in the microwave last night, I grabbed a paper towel and some vinegar and wiped part of my windshield (inside of driver's side). Dirt and dust had been building up there, and it had been getting harder to see out of it at certain times of the day (when the sun would hit it at a certain angle). I need to do more cleaning there later, but at least for now, I can drive a little more safely.

I'll probably post more later, but it's time for breakfast right now. I did make some fresh tea yesterday, Roxie, so . . . iced tea clinks to your coffee cup!

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 10:02 PM
 

Hi Tatoulia 🙂
WAY TO GO!!!!! 😀
I know how much you dreaded this and am doing a "Happy Dance" that you got started and found no bugs! 😀

Hi Fluffychild 🙂
Setting limits is a personal thing.
Depends on how much storage space a person has to
dedicate to the items.
Depends on how much daily/weekly/monthly need the person has for the items.
A lot depends on how many do YOU need and can easily store.
Keep in mind that you can always get more of something should you start to run out.

The hoarder that I live with recently bought 8 EIGHT big heavy umbrella stands.
He owns 2 TWO umbrellas and they already have stands.
He also had 3 THREE other umbrella stands laying around here.
Now, I personally believe that he has more umbrella stands than he will ever need or use or have the space to properly store them.

Just because something is a "good" price/deal, even free, we must all keep in mind that having clear living space in our homes is priceless.

 
fluffychild
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 09:13 PM
 

When I get my free things, I never know how much I should keep. Within the last couple of weeks, I got 36 8 oz containers with screw on lids and 36 6 oz containers with screw on lids. How many of each do I keep. I have already used a few. I have lots of spiral notebooks - I do use them at work, but when they were on sale, I was buying 18 at a time. I need someone to tell me a number. My helper had set a limit of 10 paper bags and that is what it is kept at. How do you set limits?

 
Tatoulia
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 08:42 PM
 

Tillie, you are so dear--growing like weeds! Was happy to hear from you, Roxie. Keep up the good work but don't push too far, too fast. Rebuilding health and strength take time.

Giant thanks to Diane and LR. I joined chat today and got started on the closet. At last. Not nearly that bad. I took out three large trash bags of essentially bags. All sorts of bags-- plastic, paper, reusable grocery bags, flannel bags that came with purses, garment bags from long defunct boutiques, boxes from stores that closed long ago, watch boxes, Christmas boxes. Okay, I've gone too far here--if you're still reading, sorry for that!

Managed two recycle bags of plastic hangers and have one large bag for goodwill. Two pretty black coats are in it--one is cashmere but I have so many coats and I'm letting it go. NO BUGS OR CREATURES ENCOUNTERERD! Yay!

Still have a lot of work to do on closet but I faced my fears and got in there! Thank you everyone! I'm hoping to find a hundred dollars So far found three, only $97 to go! Did find two bags of change, will take to bank tomorrow.

Keep up the good work!

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 05:18 PM
 

HAPPY SEPTEMBER! 🙂

Hi LR2014 🙂
Good luck with the box sorting.
Wishing you lots of tossing & shredding. 🙂

Hi Roxie 🙂
Keep up the great progress getting back your health.
Take care and take it slow. (((HUGS)))

Hi Tatoulia 🙂
WAY TO GO!!!!
Fantastic progress you are making in all areas of your life. 😀

Hi Diane 🙂
YEA!!! WAY TO GO!!!!!
You really did great detailing your car! 😀

Was so tired last night and knew it would be an early day today so got a good night's sleep.
Went out early, started the watering and started reclaiming my garden.
The weeds sure loved all the really hot weather and they all grew "like weeds".
Got a lot done before it got too hot to continue.
Planning to do more later this week and then keep at it weekly till it is all done.
I showered & ate and my get up & go, got up & went.
So tired now, but in a good/happy way. 🙂

Everybody has started out this new month in beautiful style.
Keep up all this great progress. 🙂

 
diane
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 05:15 PM
 

The online chat work sessions are so great. Helps me see things differently.
Got all dishes done and put away. Mowed lawn. This morning, then got on chat and did car.

I am pretty tired now, so may not do any more today.
I only work one day this week so have an outfit for that. Hope to find more outfits in closet tomorrow if not tonight. Going to take a smoothie out on deck and have long break. Thanks

 
diane
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 04:42 PM
 

Happy you are getting stronger Roxie. Tat, getting rid of credit cards is a priority, and you are doing it!! LR, very balanced work load today, good for you, and thanks for the support this am. I was making up reasons not to wash car. You talking about cleaning your car and that you do not mind washing yours, really helped. I washed car, then waxed it, looks great, then decided to vacuum inside. Saw the spilled coffee and other junk with new eyes, so took everything out and I mean everything, mats, blankets,pillow, coat, tire pump, spare tire, trunk liner, vacuumed it all inside. still have to wash mats, they are gross. This was not fast, took hours. Opened hood and checked all fluids, hoses etc, all fine. Started washing inside and finally ran out of energy. I bought the car in 2006 new, and have never took everything out before. Cleaned door jams maybe twice. Never washed floor mats. Never checked spare, jack etc before today. You would not believe all the food under the seats, in trunk etc, but not one critter. I have experienced cleaning thoroughly in here, so thought I would try it out on the car. Still need to wash interior windows and some other little areas, need toothbrush to reach. It feels nice to know I will not be embarrassed when I put clinic supplies in or take workers in car. I semi cleaned last year before clinics, but hid stuff under blanket, now so much better. I wanted to do anything other than wash the car this morning, and now so happy I got on chat and talked with LR about cleaning cars. Hope all is well with you today.

 
Roxie
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 01:45 PM
 

Coffee clinks to all. I just woke up so the sleeping pill I took last night must have really worked!

I have success in some self-care each day and am lousy at others. Well, I am impatient with myself and everyone tells me SLOW DOWN. I am walking better, for sure, which is exciting. I plan to just keep walking around in the house often to rebuild stamina.

I'm so glad to see each bit of progress in any area for each of you. Together we are strong.

 
Tatoulia
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 11:01 AM
 

I haven't posted much either but have been keeping up with everyone's posts. Good to see you even for a minute last night, LR. I have been maintaining my clean and cleared spaces and have been talking myself down from buying stuff. Today is the perfect day for me to implement the excellent suggestions re dealing with that closet. It's really the last frontier before I deal with storage space. Today no work AND it's trash night. I have all the supplies I need--gloves, mask, bug spray, trash cans and it appears I am out of excuses for ignoring it.

Getting rid of the clutter is helping me deal with my financial problems, which really started piling up in the last five years. Have now paid off two credit cards and have a plan in place for the third and final card. Very excited. I also feel I can start dealing with my weight. (Also packed on in the last 3-5 years). I am so happy to find you all. You are helping me to make positive, measurable changes in my life. You have helped me find the strength to deal with the tough stuff. How lucky am I?

Hope you are all well. I appreciate your friendship and support.

 
LR2014
Posted: 01 September 2014 - 09:38 AM
 

Good morning. As I mentioned at chat last night, although I haven't posted much this past week, I have been reading your posts. Great to hear from you all. Iced water clink to your coffee cup, Roxie! (I need to make some fresh tea.)

One of my goals for today is to get a couple of boxes out of storage, put them on my back patio, and at least begin to sort through them. (I'm hoping that most of what I find inside will be things I can now trash or shred.) I also plan to add to my gratitude list, get some bills paid, and spend at least fifteen minutes organizing some of my financial paperwork.

Have a good day, everyone.

 
Tillie
Posted: 31 August 2014 - 11:55 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Hi Dianne 🙂
WAY TO GO!!! for maintaining.
So nice that you are able to find everything now that it isn't getting buried in clutter. 😀
One "Non Clutter" gift that I always ask for is that they make a donation to their local animal shelter. Cash or a big bag of cat or dog food.
Whenever there is a death I always donate in the person's name rather than send flowers.

Not much happening here today.
Need to wash dishes, didn't do that yesterday.
He still has not apologized for disrespecting me and right now he I at the Laundromat washing his clothes.
I wonder why he doesn't wash his clothes here in the washing machine but won't bother to ask him.
My main plan for this week is to spend some time weeding & cleaning in my garden.
Not as hot now, especially in the mornings.
Looking at how fast the weeds all got so tall has been depressing me but it was just to hot for me to keep up with it.

Hoping to "see" everybody in chat tonight 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 30 August 2014 - 08:01 PM
 

WAY TO GO!!! Roxie 🙂

You are doing GREAT, scooped litter box and food and self care. You are doing everything that is important! 😀

 
Roxie
Posted: 30 August 2014 - 12:12 PM
 

Just a quick "hi" to say I'm here and reading, and enjoying the posts. I did get the litter box scooped yesterday, finally. And my friend went grocery shopping for me, so I am okay on food. Hanging in here trying to do daily personal care.

Hugs to all

 
Dianne
Posted: 30 August 2014 - 10:40 AM
 

Bitsy,
interesting observation about your kids not being young anymore. Strange enough to see/feel ourselves age. Even stranger to see our children graying and creaking.

Diane, I laughed out loud reading you comparing us to fire ants!!! haha!! Tough little critters. Great job sticking with the roof! Your hard work will really be rewarded when harsh weather blows in.

Tillie, glad your power loss didn't last long and that your project is completed. I love hearing the train whistles in the distance! We hear them at my grandkids' house and I always tell them to hush and listen. You're so blessed with the variety of creatures around you! Even the packrats seem to be part of a little ecosystem that functions well. When I was in 3rd grade I read about kangaroo rats and was so excited to tell my teacher and the class. She laughed at me and told me there was no such thing as a kangaroo rat. My Dad said don't bother to take the book in and prove her wrong; just keep reading and learning for my own enjoyment. So I have a bit of fondness for some kinds of rats. 🙂

So far so good here. Maintaining well. I was in Costco the other day and picked up some Christmas gifts. As in the *days of old* when I was an organized person, I started a list of gifts so I won't overbuy. The other good thing is now that the gifts won't get lost in the piles of clutter I won't need to out and buy more. As for gifts for me I've asked people to please stick to the Food For The Poor website and buy some chickens or a goat to provide a family with a sustainable source of food and income.

Have a great holiday weekend everyone!

 
Tillie
Posted: 30 August 2014 - 10:11 AM
 

Hi 🙂

So many strange new animal sounds out there this morning. I think someone has a new mule. There is a different sounding rooster crowing.
And the usual horse, cow & sheep noises going on too.
I can hear a distant train whistle. Makes me wish I was a Hobo. 🙂
My flower/herb garden has a nice crop of teeny tiny Cotton Tail bunnies that I believe were born in the cluttered carport because when I go outside that is where the baby bunnies all run and hide.
Almost stepped on a new baby corn snake last night that was napping on my back porch door mat.
Still have desert packrats living here and they won't leave because they love all the clutter/hoard all around the property.
They chew & chew everything but the good thing about this type of rat is that they are vegans. Regular rats are omnivores, so my snakes are safe.
Unfortunately, the snakes are too small to eat a full grown packrat.
Need to get some groceries today. Running out of some things that I need every day.
Only fresh fruit/veggie left is one cucumber.

TTYL 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 August 2014 - 08:23 PM
 

WAY TO GO!!! Diane 😀

I finished my project and was just getting the vacuum out to suck up all the feathers when the power went out.
A big rig hit something important knocking out power to over 7,000 homes.
Power is back on now, feathers all vacuumed up.
Neighbor dropped by for a visit when I was working on the comforter. Brought back fond memories for her of her Grandma stuffing things with down feathers. 🙂
Stayed cloudy here all day, never got very hot. Nice.
All in all, was a good day.

Pleasant dreams (((hugs)))

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 August 2014 - 07:31 PM
 
 
diane
Posted: 29 August 2014 - 06:44 PM
 

Today was the big day, I attached the roof ridge cap, not great, but ok. Then I patched all the areas I could until I was exhausted and the wind started really blowing. There is one little area that I do need to finish tonight, looks like rain is blowing in, at least it is finally in low 80's and will be in 70's this weekend. Have so much more energy when it is cooler. I was so sad my dog sitting days were over then today I find out Nellie is coming here in a few weeks and Max will be here end of Oct. so happy to have that to look forward to. Short visits but comforts me to have them here.
Just realized did not start washing machine, will soon. I wanted to watch the dr Phil show today on hoarding, but forgot, rerun I have missed 2 times now. There is a big fire 70 miles from here and wind has blown smoke all that way past few days. I keep reminding myself to stick with the task I am doing, get distracted so easily, and what ever pops in my mind seems impt., roof is important, need to finish that today. Dishes are impt. so did wash those. I am so happy it is cooler, this was the hottest summer here since I have lived here and winter was the coldest winter in decades, strange weather. I love having this site to sign into and feel connected, who else could understand how difficult it is for me to stay focused and finish projects. Yesterday I left the water on in the yard for hours, totally forgot I turned water on. Checked fire ants today, still alive, just less of them. I sprayed them with poison, boiling water then some nasty poison pellets for them. They are amazing how they are able to just keep going. Reminds me of us, no matter how bad the clutter is, we keep working on it.

 
Tillie
Posted: 29 August 2014 - 11:39 AM
 

Good Morning Everybody 😀

Only 8 more "pockets" to fill and sew up on the comforter.
Making a point of finishing this project today. Tired of all the feathers and the cats are not helping any.
They think this is fun.
Woke up with a stiff neck type headache but the aspirin are starting to work.
A bit overcast here today and the temperature has been so lovely. 🙂
It would be a perfect day to get out into my weed overgrown garden but I really MUST finish this comforter.

Everybody take care and find something today to laugh or smile about. 🙂

 
bitsy
Posted: 29 August 2014 - 11:07 AM
 

Roxie, I am glad your home and doing a little better.
Meds. I only have six a day now and that seems like a lot to me. And I am hoping I don't have any new major medical for at least a couple more years. Every day my body reminds that I am old but only this last month have I realized that my children are really not young any more. Thanks for your info about professionals. The two professional companies I talked to back in June or July gave me quotes of $15,000.00+ for the NE Atlanta house. Seems a little steep. I need to check with the ones referred on this site. It won't need any deep cleaning because it will be sold as is and probably torn down (the similar brick ranch next door was torn down and a Mc Mansion was built there). or gutted and a second story added like a house across the street. It is in a very desirable location just inside the perimeter, so I hope I can get enough from the property to cover what's left on the equity loan. (It was all paid off until the bottom fell out of the economy).
Today I need to take care of some financial matters and pay some bills.

 
diane
Posted: 28 August 2014 - 11:51 PM
 

Tillie, I smiled ear to ear seeing feathers flying and thinking the cats probably thought you had gotten some birds for them to play with. Roxie, happy to know you have friends to get groceries etc. When I had hip surgery, living alone, saw an article in paper that there is an interfaith volunteer group that puts up railings for steps, which I had done. they also offered to do other things for me, but I was ashamed of hoard so said no. Wonder if there is a similar group there. Life is difficult alone when recovering, so I hope you check out sources of assistance. good you hired people to declutter.
Today was hot again so did not get much done, tomorrow hopefully will cool down. I did go visit a couple that have relatives from New Zealand visiting, it was so much fun, nice people.

 
Dianne
Posted: 28 August 2014 - 07:02 PM
 

Thanks Tillie, hugs to you too! The down comforter will be so cozy this fall and winter. I bet the kitties love it also. 🙂

Good for you Diane, giving yourself a couple hours to reflect then declining the invitation. WTG for taking care of yourself!

Thinking of you Bitsy. Decisions are hard when there are so many at once.

Roxie, I wish I was close enough to help you. Take good care my friend.

 
Roxie
Posted: 28 August 2014 - 01:58 PM
 

It is so good to read all the posts. Welcome, Melody. Bitsy, I hired professional help. It took 2 days in my case at $2500.00. However, they did not include deep cleaning and that has been a problem for me to even find anyone to do. But it was worth it. I had two companies to choose from and chose the one most professional and kind in addressing me.

Feeling really unwell today so I'm tying to figure out priorities and trying to be content with that. I have so many medications that it is a battle for me just to set up my weekly medicine box correctly. Bah.

I've been nauseous a lot but I do have anti-nausea medicine to take. I think this may be gall bladder related somehow. However, I've lost my appetite and groceries are also low, so I try to rehydrate and to eat something like chicken soup that might stay down. I need to ask for grocery help again.

More later. Love you all.

 
bitsy
Posted: 28 August 2014 - 10:47 AM
 

Getting started is the hardest. Not being able to make decisions about where to put what I decide to keep. storage unit? Buy another storage shed? Now since son won't be working for a while we may be trying to just move to North Carolina. just indecision and confusion.

Dianne,
Thanks so much for sharing your journey process.

 
Tillie
Posted: 28 August 2014 - 10:18 AM
 

Good Morning 🙂

Watering everything this morning then I will get back to doing what I started doing yesterday
I have a down comforter that I really really like to use in the winter but after all these years it has gotten sort of thin on the feathers.
Bought another down comforter last Spring at the thrift shop. Brought it home, washed & sanitized it.
Yesterday I started taking the goose down out of it and putting it into my original comforter.
Decided since there is no place outside to do this and keep the cover clean that I would do the feather transfer in the house.
LOL 😀
Wasn't as bad a I thought it would be to clean up except that the exhaust on the vacuum cleaner acted like a leaf blower and the feathers were flying.
Still have a ways to go to finish filling all 72 little "pockets" and sewing them closed.
Got 16 done yesterday but did finish watching all available episodes of Dr who on Netflix. 😉

So, what adventures have you been getting up to?

 
diane
Posted: 27 August 2014 - 05:10 PM
 

Good afternoon all. Thanks Karl for suggestion. Just paid bills online and checked to make sure, and it appears bank paid bill on time, so I will call.
I worked all morning in freezer room, organized more stuff and found more to donate and toss. Nailed up a rack with holes for different sized hand tools, keep losing hammers etc. so want to know they are on rack. Amazing how fast the time went. I am happy with what I got done, but it is already 90 degrees. so zaps my energy.
A friend asked me to join her on Saturday morning for a shopping trip, I waited for several hours then said no. Did not want to disappoint her, truth is, crowds bug me and shopping just to shop is not good for me.
Glad to hear you are taking a day off Tillie, you have been through a lot.

 
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