| Tillie | Posted: 06 April 2020 - 10:16 PM |
Hey Lately some of the sentences were incomplete and then visible and so forth and so on. To not offend anybody with Triskaidekaphobia I made this phase 14. See you soon 😉 | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 11:36 PM |
Good Night That's very good news CriticalMass. Hi Tatoulia So happy you are motivated to get back into that closet! 😀 It is one less worry that your Mom is content and receiving daily mail. The one thing that helps lift the depression is acceptance. I always sort fabrics like with like. Have had a bag of frozen raspberries in the freezer for a while, saving them. Today the write in ballots came in the mail. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 10:09 PM |
I will watch some hoarders too! That's what started me out in the first place! Yes I'm going back in! I got some done last weekend and I want more done this weekend!!!! Keep moving forward!!! I had Brigham's chocolate ice cream. My friend has vanilla to which she added tiny chocolate chips. She also had a very good, fascinating story to tell and I was riveted!! Mom continues in a good mood. She's so great. She's loving my daily postcards, which I've upped to two a day. Other friends are also writing to her. On Monday of this week I did every bit of laundry in my home. Imagine how great I felt!!! I will need to do more soon, but I don't think I'll make it anywhere near the washer this weekend. Although, people don't do laundry the way I do. They mix sheets with towels with shirts and I'm all about "like fabrics" in addition to sorting by color. So when I do five loads, they would've done two. They must think I'm nuts. Tillie I hope Steven continues to work on the cooler. I don't want you overheating. CM you've had a long day of worry. I am grateful your cousin is getting the medical care she needs and I am grateful your roommate is back home. How nice that she has a lovely family. Must make it much easier on you. Okay back to bed. I've been laying down for a few hours. Just because. My depression continues to be lifted and I am surprised and pleased. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 10:05 PM |
Yay Tatoulia for decluttering mojo! Tillie, fingers crossed the cooler gets completely up and running. My roommate returned about 1:30 looking really pale. They hadn't given her pain meds to go home on. After her sister and hubby got the pills picked up and she took one, she felt better and had some color. She's been up and about more later in the day here. I finally got word on my cousin. They got it worked out today to transport her to Kansas City where there is an MRA machine. Like an MRI only it can image the insides and linings of blood vessels. My van got the oil changed, the AC is okay, but it needs a new valve cover gasket. I had wondered when it might because there had been some leakage. My stimulus money did come on Wednesday, and I think it will take a chunk but not the whole thing. And I think it's a good investment to prevent bigger problems. So that is set to happen on Tuesday. We are all pretty tired from this day that started at Zero Dark Thirty. I feel confident I will sleep well. Hoping my roommate does too, and her family. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 06:08 PM |
You so CAN do it Tatoulia! That diningroom closet? Let the music play!!! An ice cream social sounds like a lot of fun!. From the news on my internet homepage, your state is still very infectious. You have high humidity, because the air is so dry here I have a lot of static electricity. ANNOUNCEMENT So, lots of free episodes to watch to help motivate. 😀 Tomorrow Netflix will have episodes of "HOARDERS" again too. He has done a little bit more toward setting up the cooler. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 04:46 PM |
Tillie! I'm so pleased about the virus news in your county! Boston continues to have a lot of people exhibiting truly unsafe behavior. Very upsetting. Good for you to get your water! That will taste so yummy. Nothing beats a cool glass of water. I missed my yoga class tonight. I thought it was 5:30. It was 4:30. Oh well. I'll go back to Tuesday nights because I know when those start. I had an "ice cream social" with a friend via FaceTime today. I've gotten good at this. It feels like an absolute visit! It got sunny and humid here today. I ran up to see BF for two seconds then ran to grocery store quickly for ice cream. So humid and I hopped in shower the second I got back. I'm going to lay down a bit. I'm really, really happy with my decluttering thoughts right now. I'm ready to let go. So I'll be back in my dining room closet later tonight or early tomorrow. I am so pleased with how I'm thinking. If I put on music, I can do it!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 03:21 PM |
Ate the last 2 eggs for brunch today. Have no plans to make any recipes that require eggs, so I'm good. 🙂 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 01:10 PM |
Happy May Left home at 9:45am and returned at 10:30am. At the bank I very briefly spoke with the teller through the intercom. The water depot machines take 1s and 5s, quarters, dimes and nickels. Steven is still in bed. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 10:22 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hoping with you CriticalMass that no news means good news about your Cousin. Happy Roommate's family are with her today. Fingers still crossed the van costs nothing more than new oil and oil filter, XXX Keep up that good feeling about cleaning and decluttering momentum! Hi Subclinical 🙂 Hi Tatoulia YEA! for the pretty paper plates and napkins and at a super discount too! Honestly, we are never "done" decluttering. OK, need to do cat things and get dressed. My county is still only 3 infected one death and about 150 people tested negative. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 08:14 AM |
Saying prayers for your roommate, CM. Another rainy raw day here. It's gotten so I don't recognize the sunny days because they become rainy at some point, too. Waiting for some news on your cousin, too. Tillie I would love to see the wild yellow rose! When I had my appendix out, in my 30s, my mother brought me a tiny rose plant with yellow roses. I've loved yellow roses ever since. Maybe I could find some for her for Mother's Day. They found someone to clean mom's cat box. I think I'll put a $20 in an envelope for mom to give yo him. I'm due to leave a drop off for her. I bought some pretty spring paper plates (reduced to 32 cents a pack) for her and kitty to use. I also bought packets of napkins and have been sending them around. I want to mention that every time the cleaners are here, I make them a care package with TP. paper towels and other things. In the beginning I included bottled water because it was impossible to find. I still include TP because even though you can find it on occasion, the prices are sky-high. Even at ?reputable' stores like CVS. So I include a care package as well as an additional 10 until this craziness is over. They only have enough work for one house a day. And still, when I asked about having the mom sew for me. The daughter said no charge. These are good people. And as soon as mom can have people in, I'll have her place cleaned from top to bottom. That's an interesting comment about getting away from our stuff during the day, Tillie. That resonates with me. I'm proud to say that there's still more to go as that means I haven't decided that I'm Done and that I'll go back to where I was. I'm having fun seeing my decisions in my kitchen. I'm feeling positive today so I hope to report back some progress soon. Thank you all for bearing with me. For BF's birthday, I made an almond cake and it was lovely. First time making it. You use a can of Solo Almond Pie Filling and my goodness it was a nice little cake. I'll post a picture. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 01 May 2020 - 07:00 AM |
Tatoulia, my condolences on the passing of Officer Buckley. Sounds like he was a good and loyal man who did a great job, and will be missed by so many. Tillie, thinking about you, and sending you strength. I have little patience for paranoid conspiracy theories re this pandemic - even just reading about them. To have to be screamed at and endangered in someone's obsession to drive home their point... so wrong. You are coping the best you can and it is an energy drain. I'm glad you have the cats and nature to give moments of distraction. And projects to give a sense of accomplishment. SubC, my heart is with you; hoping that helps to know. My roommate's sister and brother in law arrived yesterday afternoon. They are the kindest, sweetest people one feels immediately at ease with. He was nuts over the dog and the feeling was mutual. I'm glad. We think the dog's previous owner must have been a guy, as he responds so happily to men. We all went on a walk. Weather was perfect. Things weren't so crazy in the neighborhood as that other time with loose dogs, so I'm relieved. Doggy and I will manage to get along. Maybe I'll even feel more relaxed with him again. Sometimes one gets in a rut and having a change in routine can give a fresh perspective. They (humans - doggy stays here!) and my roommate have probably arrived at the surgery place by now. I slept intermittently waking to pray for her and my cousin and everybody. My prayers were not eloquent, maybe not even coherent. But it's not a contest. I checked my email several times yesterday for news on my cousin, but there wasn't any. Hoping that means they were simply busy helping her. I'm not going to check again until after my roommate is back home. Whatever is, is, and my mental health needs no more to process for just a few hours. Then I'll look. My van is getting an oil change and a going over. I pray nothing costly wrong with AC. I could forego AC for awhile to save money, as long as that wouldn't damage anything worse. I hope I get my van back today. Today is payday, which helps to know. Our Governor announced a 3 phase reopening plan starting the 4th. The 18th is the next phase, then June 1st, and complete lifting of restrictions June 15th. With leeway for counties to keep stricter guidelines. Our county commission to meet today. I hope they are cautious. Churches, it said on the news, are not rushing to resume services and as much as I miss going, I feel relieved at that. I plan on continuing my safety precautions regardless of what some champing at the bit folks do. Still feeling good about the cleaning and decluttering momentum. Weather has been nice. Rain on Sunday it sounds like. But we need some, and it's not that chilly winter hanging on rainy pattern we'd been in. Stay safe everyone. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 11:14 PM |
Forgot to mention... | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 11:04 PM |
Good Evening Everybody Hi Tatoulia June 1st will give you all plenty of time to set things up and also to see how this pandemic is going in your area. YEA! that you have some extra TP! People all over the world, stuck inside their homes all these weeks are also now acutely aware that they have too much stuff. Even Steven has a bunch of stuff in the truck to donate soon as there is any place open to donate it. YEA! for having the cleaners in so your home is a fresh clean pleasant place to be. So great your Mom is well and happy!!! I made plans this afternoon to go into town tomorrow to the bank drive through for some cash then the water depot to fill 4 bottles. Maybe later next week I'll get brave enough to grocery shop. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 08:14 PM |
Everyone-I am here and thinking of you all. SubC I truly love you for telling me not to read a certain part of one of your posts. Cm I am sorry for your cousin. SubC please share whatever you need to. Tillie I've missed you so much! I'm praying for all of you, all of us, myself included. I couldn't make it through this without you. My cleaners came this week and they had sewed masks for me-the mom had seen them. So I showed her my fabric (just a yard) of what I want to buy for a new shower curtain and she will sew it for me! I told her I'd pay her (naturally) and the daughter said no charge but I then told them how much I'd pay and so I've ordered the fabric. I'm really excited about this. My last two seamstresses have been a bit dicey to deal with. I don't know where I left off about mom's. Three infected, one gone. I don't know if the other two are still alive. Mom is very happy and enjoying all the postcards I'm sending her. I'm doing at least two a day and no where in sight of getting through how many I have. I grabbed some travel materials from a 1990 trip to Europe and went through them. Was able to get rid of about half, including my very expensive plane ticket. The one with the red carbon paper. I mailed my work shredding today. I'm just not going to shred all that paperwork here. Too time consuming. My department is now doing our own happy hours. We had coffee talk Tuesday AM and happy hour today. It's great to see everyone's faces. I have so much to get rid of. I have so much to go through. And I'm going to do it. I've ended up with too much stuff. None of it is new except a bit of extra TP. It just feels like things have piled up. I pulled out quite a bit from dining room closet over the weekend and shredded some. Then put back in before cleaners came. I will do again the weekend. I still have that one bag of donations. Not much more. I'll put in car for now. I haven't been to my car for about a month. I should start asking BF to start it for me once in a while. Or drive it somewhere. It's rainy and cold here all the time. Even if we have a semi sunny day it still feels cold. This is just so weird. It's just so weird. My office is closed til June 1 and they have assembled a committee to figure things out. Spacing, configuration, cleaning, whether people should work staggered days, etc. We lost our first friend to COVID19. Police Officer Conrad Buckley. One of the pictures of him on the news is one from a night that we were with him. Watching the fireworks from a parking garage. We are gutted. I learned yesterday. BF sat with it for a day before telling me. Two police officers stopped by to tell him because they didn't want him to hear about it from other channels. Very sad. We've been to countless weddings and events with him. They haven't mentioned his wife. She too is fighting it right now. She is extremely competent and lovely and drop dead gorgeous and so kind and I was always so happy when we'd go to an event and she'd be there. So lovely. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 05:00 PM |
The shutdown and sheltering in place orders have been extended here. I am relieved. But I do not believe I deserve to be screamed and ranted at because of it. Been too many weeks since I last had a conversation with a human. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 01:17 PM |
Subclinical, Please share if you need to - we are here for you and it'll be okay. But only if you feel comfortable of course. {{{ ♡ HUGS ♡ }}} | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 10:19 AM |
Good Morning or Greetings or whatever today So very sorry CriticalMass for your Cousin (((HUG))) Sad to hear your sad update Subclinical (((HUGS))) About 8pm last night Scooter started loudly "chirping" then began his "Mousie" singing song, he had finally located Mousie in the hallway and immediately placed him back in the water bowl. We are living in "interesting" times. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 07:56 AM |
Crossed with CM, I am sorry for your sad news as well. And do please keep sharing. I am not a praying person, and I don't know if God hears me, but I pray for your people. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 07:53 AM |
my humans are fine. My cat is fine. My bunnies are fine. Other than that I am not posting because I think the total amount of sad might go up if I share it. Dh is sharing my sad. Lots of rain. And cold. Wishing to barter with Tillie - I'll give you an inch of rain for ten degrees of temperature. 14 more days of video school. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 30 April 2020 - 07:48 AM |
I'm sorry, Tillie. Cold washcloths for now might help a little, and icy drinks. I would be delighted if the van AC issue would have a simple, non-dire explanation. Warning - truly sad news ahead I just wanted to say in case anything happens, and because here we are in countdown for the arrival of guests today and surgery tomorrow - that last night I checked email again about my cousin. The situation is worse with her. Original diagnosis of aneurysm at base of spine was incorrect. It is a leak out of her aorta and it caused a stroke. She also has blood clots in legs and one lung. However, no cognitive damage. She's had pain and some sleepless nights. And I don't know when they'll attempt surgery. Whether she is stable enough. Many unknowns. I'm scared... Will update when I can What a week yet again | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 April 2020 - 07:33 PM |
Good Evening Everyone Hi CriticalMass Glad Roommate will see her Sister & BIL. Roommate sure has some sad situations there with her Aunt (((HUGS))) for her. Could easily be a little spilled oil from a while back that only started smoking since the air conditioner was turned on for the first time this years. WAY TO GO! the both of you for getting the place all tidied up for company! Did a lot of little easy and quick things today. Scooter has ben digging through all his toys calling Mousie. Steven has done nothing. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 29 April 2020 - 06:55 PM |
Hi Busy days Roommate finally heard back from the doctors that her surgery will go ahead early Friday. Nothing like being left hanging wondering! Her sister and brother-in-law will come, stay in a hotel, and drive her. They want to. I pray there is no Covid19 carried by them, at the hotel, or at the surgery place. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her getting to have them. I like them too. Just want us all to be safe. Her aunt has tested positive, one of 42 residents of a nursing home in Ohio (we think, unless she has been moved) who have. Shes the older sister of roommate's mother, and also has Alzheimers. So sad. Yesterday we went in my van across town to her work to take some items she had here and pick up her plants. Also took lettuce and carrots to the bunny shelter. On the way back, running the AC, at an intersection I saw and smelled some pale wispy smoke from near the driver's door. I freaked. But I prayed and calmed down, tried driving without the AC. It seemed okay. And I managed to get hold of the mechanic. Supposed to get oil change tomorrow, been needing to. He thinks funky smoke was a bit of grease - which I pray isn't indicative of a big problem. He'll have to look under the hood. I SO pray that no big car repairs eat my stimulus money... really want that to be seed money for a place of my own when the time is right. That's why I freaked, because I don't even have the stimulus yet; if it's gonna go away like every other chunk of money I've thought was going to lever me slightly out of the poverty pit, at least let me wave to it in passing! Just doing my best to stay calm and trust God... Today roommate and I were both working on tasks to get ready for company. That helped my mind stay occupied, and gave the reward of accomplishment. I decluttered bags and boxes in the back room, took some doll sewing fabric out that'll have to go back to storage but hopefully not for long. Threw away an old ratty box. Yesterday I'd put my tools into a new toolbox. Got up on a stepstool and dusted ceiling fans. Swept the floor - it looks nice. I'm pleased that Spring seems to have given me some energy and motivation. I'm not ready for 90s temps! Hope you get that cooler up and running, Tillie. Good luck to Scooter on the Great Mousie Hunt. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 April 2020 - 10:58 AM |
Good Morning Very quiet and cool morning. Lets see... So, nothing planned for today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 April 2020 - 08:47 PM |
95 freakin degrees outside. Watered the grass this evening and soon will go out and water the garden bed. Puttered around inside, did a little of this & that here & there. Spent time this morning sniffing the Lilacs and will spend more time doing it again this evening. 🙂 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 April 2020 - 12:17 PM |
The Lilacs are starting to bloom today!!! 😀 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 April 2020 - 10:29 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Tatoulia Wishing your Cousin a speedy recovery CriticalMass. Wishing everybody well in your area with the storms. Wonderful you got to see some students Subclinical! The reopening plans are confusing and no state, city or county has the same rules or timeframe. My rural county has had only 3 diagnosed cases (so far) because we are rural and remote and we have ALL been sheltering at home. The troubling thing for me is that the "authorities" know there will be more cases but they just don't want us all sick at the same time and overload the hospitals. Even if/when our local areas are all open for business as usual again we should all keep away from everyone and everywhere if at all possible. Don't have any real plans for today. Has been nice though to have clear clean windows and screens for me and the cats to look out from. 🙂 | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 28 April 2020 - 04:45 AM |
CM, I hope things resolve well for your cousin. I spent four hours at school for pick up and drop yesterday (plus half an hour before to set up and half an hour after to start the kiln.) I only had 12 out of 51 that didn't pick up, so not too bad. A few of the parents brought their kids and a couple of my teens brought themselves. It was really good to see my kids again, even from a distance. Two of the teens hung around and had shouted conversations with me in the parking lot. I think one of my boys would have gladly spent the day. And one of my little ones wore a twirly dress and spun and spun in the parking lot. I picked some cilantro and a bouquet of kale from our school garden. My state starts "reopening" at the end of the week. Friday is non-emergency health care (dentists, and mammograms and such - but not elective surgery) Monday is manufacturing, distribution, and construction. Dd is construction and they never closed, so I'm confused about that. I feel like most of those stayed open. Maybe manufacturing and distribution of non-essential items? Masks will be required for employees and customers (no mask, no service) and on the 12th we will have non-essential retail again, but not things like gyms, salons, barbers, and tattoo parlors. I'm not clear on restaurants. We picked up a pizza for dinner last night. They seemed to think they would be open on the 12th, but I'm not sure they are "consumer retail"? Companies are supposed to keep anybody who can work from home working from home. I don't understand what makes this ok. Cases had leveled off, but then we had a huge spike after Easter, which imho was because people went to church and visited their families. I don't know how we're going to avoid another huge spike if we open up shopping. And people will start associating again, because if you can go in Macy's, you can go to your neighbor's house, right? I don't see anything that has happened that makes thIs any safer than it was in March. Brought home a little more stuff from the classroom. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 28 April 2020 - 02:19 AM |
It never rains but it pours... Checked email Sunday a.m. before my livestream Mass, and learned my cousin had been in ICU since Wednesday I gathered. She had an aneurysm at the base of her spine and blood traveled up around the spinal cord. They may do a surgical procedure. The effects are like those of a stroke sort of, so she is having therapy with her legs and maybe will go to a rehab. Of all the times for this... but praying and have others praying. For years this cousin has been my ride to see the out of town family. Her husband has health issues and can't drive. But first things first - just want her to be okay! They both just retired last summer. Roommate's surgery plans still need cardio doc to sign off, hope that doesn't create confusion as to whether it will happen on Friday or not. We've been preparing, I made a big list of what I need to do plus any things she's wanting to do that involve or affect me. She's in a decluttering mood, too, which is contagious and might be the motivator I've needed. I took some of her unwanted gardening items to another friend, and we may take pet items to the shelter for dogs and cats if they're accepting donations. Possibility of severe storms tomorrow evening... Sunday was 29 years since one of the bad tornadoes that hit nearby Haysville, McConnell AFB, and Andover, with 21 fatalities. A sad day. But, I am just doing my best not to worry. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 April 2020 - 01:40 PM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical YEA! for more baby goats! Interesting to hear about your breeding outcomes. YEA! for things growing in your garden and the trees! Good luck with all your plans for the week and keep up the good hygiene practices. Well, I washed all the windows inside and out that I can reach. Want to do the back porch but he has crap stacked all around there and would pitch a fit if I got it wet. Before I went out I did two wash loads of some of my bedding and it's drying on the clothes line. Now to rest and find something hopefully not fattening for lunch. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 April 2020 - 04:49 AM |
Yesterday i stopped at dd1's house and traded eggs for the box of glazes I had delivered to her (limited delivery area) through the porch "airlock." I wore my mask. Then I went to school and emptied the rest of the lockers (except two kids who haven't shown up for pick ups) and packed up their stuff with glazes for them to use the next two weeks. It took 4 hours. It was nice to be in my classroom again. I miss my classroom. I measured things so that I can work on planning a social distancing set up for my classroom for next year, and brought home some stuff. One thing I know is that less is going to be stored in my room next year because of surfaces and cleaning. The goat finally had her babies yesterday evening - I had decided I had her breeding date wrong and stopped checking on her obsessively, so I missed it, but when I went out to do chores the babies were still wet - two boys and a girl. The girl is lovely. That makes ten baby goats - four girls and six boys. One of the girls has a breeding fault I didn't notice until she grew a bit. That was disappointing because she is my "fancy on paper" goat for this year, but I am planning to keep the other three. I will definitely keep one boy this year, and maybe a second. I need to look at the genetics and think it through. I have two more goats left to kid. One any time and one in mid-to-late May. They were both "field bred" so no dates. Tatoulia skip this. I did lose one of the older goats this week. It was sudden and surprising. She kidded this year, but appeared in good condition. Her baby is young to be weaned, but he is eating feed and straw, so I think he will be ok. My peas are coming up, all the trees have been flowering. I picked cilantro and kale yesterday that over wintered in the school garden. I have a lot to do this week, starting with running the pick up and drop at school today and then firing the kiln. A bit stressed about all the people and surfaces, but I will keep my distance and wear gloves and my mask and wash my hands. I need to clean stalls and plant more strawberries and get things together for the week. My cousin The guidance counselor is sleeping late and has spent entire days in her pajamas. I am working ten extra hours unpaid this week, (I get paid for "classroom hours" plus 45 minute lunches and one planning hour per week.) plus effectively doing half my weekly commute. Actually, my hours dropped when we cancelled my two classes, so it is possible my April check won't include lunches. I threw things in the garbage at school yesterday. Projects that are never going to be claimed. It made me sad. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 April 2020 - 03:13 PM |
Good Afternoon Been doing laundry. Went around the house spraying bug barrier since I keep seeing spiders inside. Plan for tomorrow is to wash windows and window screens. Twinkles found a new hatched baby yellow finch dead in the garden this morning. | |