| Janie | Posted: 03 January 2017 - 08:17 AM |
Reading old cards, letters, etc. makes me feel loved, appreciated, comforted, etc.How do I know what I should save and what I should toss without feeling anxious or sad? | |
Replies (8)
| Charley | Posted: 07 December 2017 - 02:32 PM |
Oh, that is so hard. I suggest getting a scanner for anything made of paper. Then you can store all that "stuff" on a thumb drive. As for stuffed animals, well, I have only about 5 or 6, and I'm keeping them until I die!! But if you have tons of them, hmmmm, all I can think of is donating them to a homeless shelter, police department, or any charity that caters to abused or traumatized children. That way you know they'll be appreciated. | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 15 April 2017 - 09:12 AM |
CM, stuffed animals is likely the most difficult...um...'item' for me to...um...get rid of(see, i can barely even write that!!!) The classic story 'The Velvetine Rabbit'(sp?) has always made me cry! I cant even think about tossing a stuffed animal & ive requested not to ever be given stuffed animals as gifts! | |
| Anonymoniker | Posted: 15 April 2017 - 09:11 AM |
CM, stuffed animals is likely the most difficult...um...'item' for me to...um...get rid of(see, i can barely even write that!!!) The classic story 'The Velvetine Rabbit'(sp?) has always made me cry! I cant even think about tossing a stuffed animal & ive requested not to ever be given stuffed animals as gifts! | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 13 April 2017 - 12:30 PM |
Definitely for the most part I'm leaving the sentimental stuff for the final phase. With greeting cards, I went through some of them after my dad died, and tossed the ones that were from extended family and didn't have a long message. That's fairly easy. I may do like Porter does and scan some of the ones that I like the looks of or that have a message but don't feel the need to hold the physical object. Then there are probably some I will keep, at least until I get old enough that I have to downsize even more. Ones from my parents and grandparents, mostly. I'm an only child with no spouse or children, so memories of my parents are special to me and the only connection to having been part of an immediate family that I have. When I go through this second downsizing, I'll assess how much room the remainder takes up before making any further plans. Another area I struggle with is stuffed animals. I really personified my stuffies as a kid and even as an adult. But they take up a lot of room, and not all are in good enough shape to give away. That'll be a challenge for another day! | |
| Porter | Posted: 03 April 2017 - 06:21 PM |
I keep a box of picture into two stacks. On a rainy day , I take digital photos and or scan the pictures so I can have them on The cloud. That way if there a disaster I have the images. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 April 2017 - 11:44 AM |
Hi Maggie 🙂 | |
| Maggie McJannnet | Posted: 01 April 2017 - 07:53 AM |
Most of my sentimental cards and letters and children's pictures etc are in disused recycled suitcases,,,,,perhaps I will let some of it go,,,but for now I'm more concerned with the non sentimental more bulky items. I'm not at the point where I can even think about the sentimental paperwork or small craft projects. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 January 2017 - 11:16 AM |
Hi Janie 🙂 If you want to keep it all, make room for it by letting other things go that are not so sentimental to you. If your entire home is filled with sentimental things you can't part with then you have a problem. A GREAT book to read is Best wishes, Tillie 🙂 | |