| DiggingOut | Posted: 17 July 2018 - 12:55 PM |
My fear of dating used to be the dread of explaining why they can't come to my place. I've been single for years. I'm only 30. I recently cleaned up my place and I could have someone over now, but I still have boxes. I also have two storage units I'm sorting through. I can't hide that forever. I'm trying to dedicate a lot of time to it and I hate lying about what I'm doing. If I met someone who didn't judge me while I'm making progress I would be so relieved. But as soon as they find out how much I have, I fear any guy would picture the hoarders episodes with piles of feces, dead animals, and diapers. Not the actual hoard I have. I'm at the clean house with boxes stage. But it will take a while to get through everything and I'm tired of being alone. | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 17 July 2018 - 01:16 PM |
Hi 🙂 Way to go! for all the progress you have made! ;D So, your home is clean but you have lots of boxes you are working on... One thing many people do at this stage of decluttering This is just a suggestion for making the place look more pulled together as you keep working on decluttering all those boxes from your life. | |
| DiggingOut | Posted: 17 July 2018 - 01:08 PM |
I have hoarded since I was a child. My room was 3 feet deep in clutter as a kid. This is the most progress I've ever made to having a normal home. I recently had a guy over for the first time in over 3 years and I had made a lot of progress but it wasn't as nice as it now. He was really judgemental. I was devastated | |