I am a 54 year old gal and love my boyfriend but cannot stand the living situation that we are in. I actually left last night in tears because he refuses to believe that he has a problem and will not get the help that is needed. I am use to a clean well organized home and not a home that stinks and is cluttered to the point that I trip and fall and right now have a broken left ankle because of the mess. I am so done with trying to keep it clean when just tears it back up and refuses to change his clothes for weeks at a time.