My friend came to live with us a week ago. She is trying to help me let go of things. It was getting easy - until we came to the living-room mess. There's a psychological wall there and it caused friction between us. - in short she ended up saying I need more help - (psychological help) than what she can give. So we found this website. I don't like chats cause they move faster than I can type. I was hoping the message board was more active.