| Sarah | Posted: 25 February 2015 - 09:43 PM |
My dad is most definitely a hoarder. The type that likes to begin countless projects, have multiples of everything, backs ups of back ups... It is a small house, and although my dad will admit there is a mess. He can't seem to ask for help himself. My dad's excuse is always, "one day when we get a bigger house" or "if only I had a bookshelf" or "if I could buy this" .... he doesn't understand the problem is HIS BUYING. Useless spending. Which has brought both my parents into financial trouble. I left for college, and my father's "clutter" has only escalated. My sister who had 2 more years in the house, could not stand it and took any chance she could to be away from it all. My mom thinks she has to live life like this... They know they should get insurance out to help... If he doesn't clean - there will be no repairs - and I'm worried for their health. and safety. Miles away - how much can I really do? I've been trying my whole life. But that's also probably how my mom feels. Like there's no use in trying. - Which I know is not an answer. I've most recently begun to watch the Hoarders TV show - and it's helped me gain some insight and perspective on a hoarder and their mindset. Which gave me the idea to be proactive and finally voice my secret... Please help. | |
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