Cory... Wow! Thanks for taking the time to prevent that much detail.
On a personal note, I have a 13 year old. About a month ago, a 13 year old passed away from smoke inhalation in a fire. While not official information, someone who knew the family told me that the little girl was afraid to jump and tried to go back into the home when she was consumed with toxic gases.
But there IS something each of us with multiple story homes can do. We bought ourselves a Werner fire ladder from Home Depot that can be recessed in your wall beneath a window is less than an hour.
We stress tested it and did a fire drill and learned that our daughter could not exit the window with her puppies in her backpack as we had planned. Because of this fire drill, the pups now sleep in a crate and we keep rope next to the crate to lower the rope.
We reviewed "the plan" over and over. Don't look for mom and dad. Don't open the door. Open the window, deploy the ladder, lower the pups, then lower you. We are working to get the timing on this down to 60 seconds.
Another thing is GET MORE SMOKE & CARBON MONOIXIDE DETECTORS. Put one is each room. Our next purchase is to get a detector with WIFI that will actually text an alert to our local dispatcher... that way we don't have to worry about finding our phone in the dark.
I will look for other checklists and sources and will post them here. Please, please.... even before you are able to clean up any clutter, get these safety measures in place.