BREAKING POINT…

Breaking point…
lex
Posted: 25 June 2015 - 12:40 PM
 

Devestated.
My bf told me he was going to go stay with his dad for a few days and has now somehow, I'm pretty sure it turned into him breaking up with me. It seems like out of nowhere. He had said before that he needs me to change but he said I'm not moving fast enough for him. That I need someone to take babysteps with.
I'm absolutely heartbroken. Five years just gone....I don't even know what to do. I was going to even clean today..
He doesn't even seem to care...
Has anyone else gone through this??

 

Replies (3)

Roxie
Posted: 08 August 2015 - 11:44 AM
 

Lex, thank you for coming back and checking in! I'm glad you are calmer now and can get on with things for yourself. (( )))

 
lex
Posted: 06 August 2015 - 03:59 PM
 

Roxie, thank you so much. We talked and are still together but he has moved out for now. We will see what's to come and if it'll work but I;m ok now. I really appreciate your kind words.

 
Roxie
Posted: 27 June 2015 - 09:56 AM
 

Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I know you must be hurting very badly. You don't know at this point what the outcome will be so don't go scaring yourself so much.

If he does split, perhaps he is not the one for you to rely upon. Doesn't mean he's bad, just means it is not the real match you thought or hoped for. If he does come back, have a very serious talk about what he sees for the next year or so, okay?

Meanwhile, use whatever resources you have to steady yourself. I have not had someone break up over hoarding, but I have certainly been through brutal breakups (brutal emotionally). We do get through. Bring your friends and relatives close to you.

 
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